Once again...I agree with Giga. Why aren't they lined up at my door??? Damn it! LOL.
Truth be told, I don't enjoy sex that much and I don't go looking for it (another reason I've been five years without), which makes it easier to take good care of my partner's needs--if she's happy, then I'm happy. To me, I'm just glad I can trust her with me and she trusts me with her.
I remember what the last sex partner said after a six hour sex-fest...she just looked at me, smiled, and said "I'm a lucky woman."