"What has happened to my friend since?"
Well he ended up hiring the escort and it changed him a lot. I'm no longer friends with him because he moved away not cause of the escort but that would be funny. Not to say it will change you to.
Finally achieving what he sought, he realized it wasn't as amazing as he thought it would be. I certainly enjoyed the fact that he no longer talked about how much he wants to try it and with how every girl he sees he asks me if they look like they would do him.
Basically, he wasted and focused all his time on getting laid. When I focused on finding someone I could love. In the end I got laid first he was amazed with me and respected me more for whatever reason I don't quite understand. Basically, man don't get all bent up worrying over sex I'm sure if your at least a half decent guy and semi-attractive your day will come. I wouldn't bother with an escort its definitely better to share your first with someone you care for.
Thanks for the reply, a little slow in the coming however
I actually almost never talk to people I know about this or ask if some girl would do me. So I can already tell me and your friend are a bit different.
Trust me, I'm far more bent out of shape over love than sex. It's been the cause of many bad feelings for me for a long time with no end in sight. I'm 18 and haven't had a date, it's not the greatest feeling in the world. I'm pretty much a realist, and I have severe doubts on if I'll ever be able to get a relationship
Man don't worry about age in relation to dating. Good friend of the family had his first date when he was 25 within a year they were making plans for marriage and they are really happy together.
Good to know your in it for love and not just like my friend was in it for the physical side of it.
And talking of bad feelings. I suffer from depression and believe you me when it hits it really hits. I have had my fair share of bad feelings with a seemingly no end in sight. What is weird is I was never really unpopular in school and my first girlfriend was in my last year. Its all really in relation of what you have access to in regards to females and how open you are and how much you flirt. Its how you present yourself to the opportunities available to yourself.
And for the response time I no longer use the email linked to the account and most troll my way through here when I find time to try and find my past posts and stuff. Many apologies.
Last edited by Vain; 22-08-07 at 11:51 AM.