What do women...

[vashti]

People will think you are a brilliant conversationalist if you can make THEM feel comfortable when conversing. I think having a general list of "getting to know you" questions in the back of your head is a good idea, so long as you can tell when to deviate from them so your conversation doesn't start to feel like an interview.

[IndiReloaded]

I do have concerns about things like the environment, social politics etc. (if thats what you mean???)
I always try to aim as high as possible and give it all I can. I just believe that theres is always room for self improvement and that we are on this earth to continue to improve ourselves and learn (thats my personal belief ). I like to look at things at the micro level but also at the macro level. And to look at things from different people's perspectives too. Do I get what you mean Indi?????

Sure those are examples. There are many others. Keep in mind I was just giving my own opinion of what I look for. But I enjoy a good argument (many of those issues could be seen as contentious). Others might find those topics too intense. I think Vash gave the best advice about trying to judge the comfort level of your conversation partner & try to find a balance between superficial pleasantries and interest.

[Henry123]

People will think you are a brilliant conversationalist if you can make THEM feel comfortable when conversing. I think having a general list of "getting to know you" questions in the back of your head is a good idea, so long as you can tell when to deviate from them so your conversation doesn't start to feel like an interview.

I try to make people I talk to feel comfortible.
Yeah I difinatly dont want to come off as dry and dull and make it feel like an interview. Or at worst an interogation
If she suddenly stops talking or looks abit pist. I generally would just shut up. I try to lighten up the conversation but somethings I dont know what to say.

[Henry123]

Sure those are examples. There are many others. ...

Such as????

But I enjoy a good argument (many of those issues could be seen as contentious).

You mean like "who cheats more- women or men?"
" who are better liars men or women?" "theres no such thing as soul mates" "women marry men for their wallets" "all women are gold diggers to some extent" "its perfectly normal for guys to be promiscuous but not women"


Hey I think I'm getting the hang of it????

[IndiReloaded]

Such as????

Uh, put me on the spot why don't you? K, how about family values (that will make em run!), ubercapitalism, uh... over crowding of the planet. Which tastes better: pale ale or lager?

You mean like "who cheats more- women or men?"
" who are better liars men or women?" "theres no such thing as soul mates" "women marry men for their wallets" "all women are gold diggers to some extent" "its perfectly normal for guys to be promiscuous but not women"


Hey I think I'm getting the hang of it????

Hahahaha! You are! Better keep that to this forum for now, tho, until you've convinced them to stick around your sexy, smart self.

[DoesntMatter]

When someone brings up politics, tell people you want to found an American Nationalist party, because the current Democrat/Republican parties suck ass

I bet that will get a conversation going

[Gigabitch]

Ay, caramba, dm. You are a bad boy.

Henry, you need female friends. Really. Chatting is a wonderful skill that you simply cannot learn online. If you didn't live hundreds of miles away from me, I'd go out to lunch with you and teach you how to yak yak yak. Find someone IRL to do this.

[Henry123]

I'm back. I got quite busy.


Whats IRL stand for Giga?

[Gigabitch]

In Real Life

[DoesntMatter]

Industrial Rabor Lelations

[Junket]

We need an American National Socialist Party!

[Stirfry]

Sometimes it's hard to relate to someone you don't really know that well... thus the difficulty in conversation. A girl who is a good conversationalist will ask for your ideas/opinions/input as well. Don't make it like an interview... its sometimes silly how people have to make so much small talk or talk about unimportant things just to be friendly. It would just be so much easier if we could just say "You know, you're a really cool person, we should be friends." It's beautifully simple, yet not correct, according to mostly everyone... have I gone off topic? : S

[Tiay]

I'm back. I got quite busy.


Whats IRL stand for Giga?

Irish Republican Larmy. of course..

[Henry123]

Sometimes it's hard to relate to someone you don't really know that well... thus the difficulty in conversation. A girl who is a good conversationalist will ask for your ideas/opinions/input as well. Don't make it like an interview... its sometimes silly how people have to make so much small talk or talk about unimportant things just to be friendly. It would just be so much easier if we could just say "You know, you're a really cool person, we should be friends." It's beautifully simple, yet not correct, according to mostly everyone... have I gone off topic? : S

If I ask her "whats your wearing" would that be something okay to ask in a conversation?

[Gigabitch]

What, like on the phone? That could be taken in a couple of ways. Kinda suggestive, actually.

What would you like to talk about, Henry? If you're interested enough in any subject, you can make it interesting to others.