Originally Posted by
kalupe
we're okay again, so far. and it's safe to say that he's back to his normal self. i just made it clear to him that no matter what's happening in his life, or mine, we should keep communicating, and be honest about what we're communicating about.
I think the issue had less to do with communication and more with him not being there for you and not spending a lot of time with you. From experience, whatever causes made him be like that will still be there and at some point he will probably fall back into that pattern. What will you do next time it happens? You best have a plan. Breaking up with him and expecting him to make up is not a viable solution.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~