Please help as fast as you can.

[Cain]

Like I said before, my opinion on this matter would be completely different if she wasn't sleeping with some other man. If she just needed a break to find herself, I'd be a lot more supportive of you going back to her after the summer is over. But you have to think that her definition of finding herself is SLEEPING with ANOTHER MAN. Are you really okay with that? Do you really see nothing wrong with that? I will repeat what I've said... if she really loved you, she would NOT be sleeping with another man right now.

[Gigabitch]

somewhere inside of her is a completley different girl....

No, Theguy, somewhere inside of her is his dick. You're being too forgiving because you don't want to lose this girl, but you need to understand that you've already lost her. You're holding on to a fantasy at this point.

The time will come when you see her on campus and say to yourself, "Man, what was I thinking?" Then you'll turn to your girlfriend (who will be wonderful, by the way) and say, "I almost missed meeting you because I didn't want to be anywhere near that girl over there. yeah, the one who doesn't compare to you at all. boy am I glad I listened to those people on LF!"