Halfway Sex

[Junket]

I haven't gotten blueballs since our pre-sex relationship.

So yeah we f*cked some, and I almost came a few times, but my balls were just fine afterward.

[IndiReloaded]

If it wasn't like that, I guarantee you'd see many more men inserting buttplugs into their anus to stimulate their prostates during intercourse.

And I think that if you guys like that b/c it feels good, then that's exactly what you should do.

In any case, your last response was better, but didn't answer my point about why its a "power" issue to YOU.

I mean, you could just view a gal that won't at least *try* anal as someone who is very straightlaced & unwilling to experiment w/her body. If it hurts or just doesn't suit, then one just doesn't do it again.

I agree, there is a societal taboo against it. But there's also one for sex in general yet we still do it. Shrug.

[Arrow]

And I think that if you guys like that b/c it feels good, then that's exactly what you should do.

In any case, your last response was better, but didn't answer my point about why its a "power" issue to YOU.

I mean, you could just view a gal that won't at least *try* anal as someone who is very straightlaced & unwilling to experiment w/her body. If it hurts or just doesn't suit, then one just doesn't do it again.

I agree, there is a societal taboo against it. But there's also one for sex in general yet we still do it. Shrug.

I answered it indirectly because I spoke about men in general and I'm a man.

And I was speaking IN GENERAL. There are indeed many girls who won't do it because they've done it before and it wasn't a pleasant experience (even prostitutes). But most don't even try.

Anal is more of a fetish to me really. In fact I'm not comfortable with the idea of having anal sex with a girl I truly love, since I'm a bit idealistic about love and anal doesn't seem a very romantic thing to do...

I'm really sorry that I offended you in a way (well I made you call me an idiot so it must've had a great effect on you). Next time I'll watch my mouth.

[misombra]

i know what you mean. i kinda feel that way about blow jobs. i have to really trust somebody to do that because, to me, it's a vulnerable situation. i think i feel the same about anal. i think it was how i was raised.

[Junket]

Anal is more of a fetish to me really. In fact I'm not comfortable with the idea of having anal sex with a girl I truly love, since I'm a bit idealistic about love and anal doesn't seem a very romantic thing to do...

I'm really sorry that I offended you in a way (well I made you call me an idiot so it must've had a great effect on you). Next time I'll watch my mouth.

That's how my friend felt about blowjobs. He said it seemed "dirty" and perverted, or somethin'. That was before he ever had a girlfriend. His mind changed soon after his first girlfriend, who had to persuade him to let her give him a blowjob.

Have you ever had a girlfriend? If yes, then did you ever have sex with her?

You're idealistic about love because you probably haven't had much of it, if any.

Like the guys who say they love a girl so much they aren't even interested in having sex with them? Please.

REALITY CHECK: Even if that were true, how long do you think that kind of chaste relationship would last, hm?

[Dasein]

Of course it's cultural.

Unless you are talking about Ancient Greece then I don't understand.

[Arrow]

That's how my friend felt about blowjobs. He said it seemed "dirty" and perverted, or somethin'. That was before he ever had a girlfriend. His mind changed soon after his first girlfriend, who had to persuade him to let her give him a blowjob.

Have you ever had a girlfriend? If yes, then did you ever have sex with her?

You're idealistic about love because you probably haven't had much of it, if any.

Like the guys who say they love a girl so much they aren't even interested in having sex with them? Please.

REALITY CHECK: Even if that were true, how long do you think that kind of chaste relationship would last, hm?

No girlfriend for me...

[Charlie Boy II]

you women are kidding yourselves if you think anal sex isn't about power. The reason it's such a turn on for some men because it represents complete submission of the female. It negates female pleasure, in fact causes her pain, in favour of the male's wishes.

I mean I'm talking from the male point of view, you women can think what you like. Also, I'd like to add that anal sex holds no appeal for me at all.

[Gribble]

I've heard that anal can be pleasurable for women. Supposedly the nerve endings in the vaginal wall are actually closer to the anus or something. I don't know. I've never done anal.

I'd like to try it simply because it's such a dirty taboo. But not if she wouldn't enjoy it and certainly not for the sake of some sick power trip. I'd want us both to feel naughty.

[doppelgaenger]

you women are kidding yourselves if you think anal sex isn't about power. The reason it's such a turn on for some men because it represents complete submission of the female. It negates female pleasure, in fact causes her pain, in favour of the male's wishes.

I mean I'm talking from the male point of view, you women can think what you like. Also, I'd like to add that anal sex holds no appeal for me at all.

Do you have really painful poops?

[Junket]

I've taken it up the ass.

It's not that bad.

Soon it'll all pay off.

[Gribble]

I've taken it up the ass.

What, were you in prison or something?

[Junket]

What, were you in prison or something?

Nope.

She said she wasn't willing to take it if I wasn't.

Technically we're on the same playing field at this point, but I'm lookin' to get the upper hand soon.

[doppelgaenger]

What did she do? **** you with a strap on?

[IndiReloaded]

I'm really sorry that I offended you in a way (well I made you call me an idiot so it must've had a great effect on you). Next time I'll watch my mouth.

Ha, no I'm not offended, no worries. Its your opinion. It simply wasn't clear from your post that you understood the reason for why you feel anal sex is a 'power' thing. Its b/c you've been conditioned to it. Someone or something, at sometime has messed with your head on this. Once you realize this, then you can change your thinking, if you wish.