Have this cockiness and confidence to you, and don't care
what she says, just talk to her a little, flirt, stuff like that.
You need swagger, don't care If she's a girl in your mind, treat it as getting to
know a stranger, but can get closer to reading the proper body language.
Become a smooth talker, and start up a conversation about what has
been on your mind, then she'll suggest her answer and add to hers.
P.S. Too much honesty isn't the best thing either, I'm an example of where being too
honest didn't help as well as talking too much and made the girl less interested.