Hi.

[Cain]

Haha!

I was already thinking about that today. I posted that video on here a few weeks after we broke up and as time went by, the lyrics fit more and more. And after tonight, the lyrics just fit nearly perfectly. I love it.

The girl I laid knows that I'm not looking for a serious relationship. I made sure I emphasized it tonight when we were making plans for tomorrow because I don't want her expecting something more. I am just looking to date and have fun. That's it. Nothing serious. I have plenty of time in my life to settle down and get serious and it won't be now.

The awesome thing is that this girl is bi... so when she trusts that I won't become more occupied with the other girl, she'll have no problems introducing a third.

[IndiReloaded]

Heh.

She finds out that her ex and her definitely aren't getting back together again and now she's talking to me.

It's ironic, because her ex said to her what she said to me about not being in it completely and needing a break. Turns out he went back to his ex.

Hey Cain. Well, what goes around certainly does come around. That girl put you through hell. Savor it.

Seriously, tho, I think your ex could really do with some time being single. She seems to be a 'branch jumper'.

[vashti]

Isn't revenge the sweetest when you don't have to do a thing to orchestrate it?

[Cain]

Hey Cain. Well, what goes around certainly does come around. That girl put you through hell. Savor it.

Seriously, tho, I think your ex could really do with some time being single. She seems to be a 'branch jumper'.

She told me last night that she wanted to take some her time now. Though, I think she'll only think that way until she finds a new guy. It appears that the only time she's single is when the guy breaks up with her because she had no one waiting in the stands. I'm certainly not waiting for her.

She definitely put me through hell and it's great to see that karma truly does exist. When I found out that he broke up with her the same way she broke up with me, I really just couldn't stop laughing. It was just like a script from a movie. She made sure to tell me when she told me about the breakup that she wasn't talking to me because they broke up, but because she wanted to see how I was. Convenient. She had been checking on me for the last week but not until she knew that they were done for good did she want to talk to me.

[Cain]

Isn't revenge the sweetest when you don't have to do a thing to orchestrate it?

It is. I mean, a part of me wanted to do everything I could to get some revenge and savor it knowing that I caused it. But knowing that this happened all on its own in the way that it did just feels really good.

It's funny. A guy that she dated for only a couple of months cheated on her with his ex and then left her for that same ex. Yet, a guy that she dated for a year and a half that never did anything bad to her in the relationship and treated her well... she broke up with. I wonder if she's going to try and get back with me. Hopefully not, because I'd rather not have to be a jackass.

[misombra]

does this new girl want a relationship with you?

[Cain]

does this new girl want a relationship with you?

I'm sure that she does, but it's not what I want. I want to date... not be in a serious relationship. I don't mind exclusivity, but I don't want the seriousness that goes with a serious relationship. I told her that last night and she still wants me to hang out.

[misombra]

mmmmmmmmmmmm that sounds like trouble to me.

[Cain]

mmmmmmmmmmmm that sounds like trouble to me.

Why? As long as she knows where I stand it shouldn't be a problem.

[misombra]

i've been around a while and i know how these things turn out.

but it's cool. enjoy it while it lasts!

[Cain]

And I'm asking how they normally turn out.

That's typically where you supply an answer.

Where the hell is misombra?

[Gribble]

You're assuming that women are rational and sane. Just because a woman says she understands does not mean she does. Give it a little time and this chick is going to be pouring her eyes out to you. It's almost inevitable.

[Cain]

You're assuming that women are rational and sane. Just because a woman says she understands does not mean she does. Give it a little time and this chick is going to be pouring her eyes out to you. It's almost inevitable.

And I'll deal with that if it happens. She could tell me that she wants the same thing I want and still end up pouring her eyes out, so all I can do is hang out with her until she gets too attached.

[lesa]

Some women are rational and sane but we are still crazy....some more than others. Emotions can be difficult but I try to think like a "man". I'm in a casual that is going to stay like that no matter how we feel. We are just relaxing until it's time to move on. I think that time is approaching. Fun memories though .

She's a big girl, Cain. She can handle it. Just make sure you both stay on the same page. Never allow miscommunication to progress (if you sense it).

Congrats on the new relationship and don't let that psycho pull you in her spell. I know it's up to you but I sense that you deserve much better than her.

[Cain]

Congrats on the new relationship and don't let that psycho pull you in her spell. I know it's up to you but I sense that you deserve much better than her.

I don't consider this a relationship. To me, a relationship is more serious. I consider this dating... maybe. But it's not even to that point yet. Right now we're just friends.

Don't worry. I won't be getting back together with my ex. If she hadn't have dated another guy, maybe. If she hadn't have wanted to get back together with me AFTER she and her new bf broke up, maybe. But it feels as if she wants a backup plan. That's not me.