His very high sex drive

[Mish]

I am definitely not against using sex as a weapon. Hell, I am a guy, and I know if my girl wants to hold it back for whatever reason, I better just accept it and not ask questions.

So if she said she'll withhold sex from you until you buy her a mansion, that will be no questions asked, eh?

[freedom]

it is not a bargain, it is the fact that sometimes you just cant get sex... and there really should not be any complaint if she decides she doesn't want sex for a week (whether or not she does or doesn't)... sex is not a right, it is a privilage

[Aeradalia]

it is not a bargain, it is the fact that sometimes you just cant get sex... and there really should not be any complaint if she decides she doesn't want sex for a week (whether or not she does or doesn't)... sex is not a right, it is a privilage

Not talking about her not being in the mood. True, sometimes the other partner doesn't want sex... and you shouldn't force them.

What is being talked about is the idea of withholding sex on the basis of it being a form of punishment. This is what's wrong... sex should be freely given when both partners are comfortable with one another and in the mood. It should never be used as a bargaining tool.

A woman withholding sex as punishment for a man's 'misbehavior' and then rewarding him with sex for performing the correct 'trick' really isn't much better than a whore. She is purchasing something with sex... in this case, favors and obedience from the man she's with.

[Mish]

and there really should not be any complaint if she decides she doesn't want sex for a week (whether or not she does or doesn't)... sex is not a right, it is a privilage

What about for a year or five years?

To me it sounds like manipulation technic. Following that logic, you could say the same about money, if you have / make more than your partner then you should be able to decide what to do with it regardless of your partner's opinion and there shouldn't be any complaints, no?