God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein
Sorry, my bad.
Love is a human experience resulting from the action of various hormones and neurochemical pathways being stimulated by either internal or external stimuli.
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here's my humble offering. It's seems to me that this page is full of cynics. Love- the real stuff- is inconvenient, painfull, and non-sensical. Its not something that you pencil into your bloody day planner! You've met this person by chance and the feelings that you have developed for them have stood the test of time (six moths right?) and distance- MAYBE, just maybe this is more than a cheap affair. A word of caution to my fairytale- * if you are gonna invest anymore of your precious time and heart in this relationship you need to be fair to all concerned- i.e you need to evaluate your situation and come clean to your wife- she deserves to be with a man who is invested in her and ONLY her *also look before you leap- is your sweetheart on the same page? How honest can you be with one another? If there are any grey areas tread with caution or you'll lose it all. But everybody deserves LOVE- the real stuff- that BIG love that you wanted before the world beat the hope outta you. Seems to me everybody else on this page has maybe settled for less in their lives- they're so keen to judge you. If it all goes west with your sweetheart you still need to take a long hard look at your marraige- it's obviously not fulfilling you as you need- else you would look no further. Good luck with a very difficult (yet hopeful) situation. Maybe you've found the good stuff! x