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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional View Post
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    he's 46.
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    oh snap 46?? now back to talking about food... what's for lunch today?? i'm going to eat hamburger steak..!! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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    i made some posole with chicken and some red chile on the side. it's good. hell yeah.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    No, don't do that.
    Err, why not? How else are you supposed to get at the clit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jastela View Post
    Err, why not? How else are you supposed to get at the clit?
    It swells when she is aroused.... until that point, it is too sensitive for direct contact.

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    licking the clit is sexy..!!

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    I'm a female, and i don't have any problems with it.
    My bf loves going down on me, and I love it too, i don't think any girls would not like it, just think about it, tongues are so much softer than fingers, how can anyone not like it?
    i think shes just a bit insecure, show her that you really want to do it, and give her confidence.

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    I'm having this same issue, I always tell her how beautiful she is (which is true), how I can't keep my hands off of her (cause it's true), I actually have told her she has the sexiest va ja ja I've ever seen (which is true) and she's let me do it a few times, and I thought everything was ok, now she straight up won't let me do it. She said it makes her feel "weird". She also has issues with going down on me. It's only happened twice and she was trashed both times. She thinks a lot of sexual things are "weird". She's really really shy if you don't know her well, but damn we've been together long enough that she shouldn't be shy around me anymore. Anyone got any other ideas about bringing women out of their shell and not thinking that it's weird??
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    ugh she must be crazy! lol There's nothing that feels better than someone going down on you..if they do it right. Well either she is too embarrassed, she doesn't know how to act 'turned on' or she just doesnt get turned on by that. I read some girls prefer to just fuc* and they orgasm that way..and some girls orgasm faster when they get eaten out

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    Yea, well the sex is great and she gets off like almost too fast sometimes. I just want her to trust me and explore our sexuality. She is beautiful but she doesn't think so. I am realizing more and more she has huge self image issues. She will get naked during sex but be the first one struggling to get her clothes back on. She doesn't want me to actually just "see" her naked unless we are performing the act. She will stay naked under the covers, but make sure she's covered. We argued about her letting me see her breasts for just a little while longer after sex lol. She absolutely would not bring them from under the covers. It actually got to the point where she said she would leave if I didn't stop bugging her about it How can you have someone telling you they love every part of your body and that you are beautiful and them still not care???!! It's very frustrating.

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