Impossible to work it out?

[CAM]

And to CAM, no I actually have no problem with your whole "garden" deal, I'm not really sure what it is with you, women and sexuality, but all of us aren't controlled by emotions related to whom we have sex with. We're actually affected by more rational thoughts, believe it or not... We do have brains, not just one giant hormone.

Look, I was raped really young so I've never had any problems with attributing my self worth to whether a guy can "jizz" on me or not... (to use your classy words) Capiche? Try not to be so damn assumptive... gahh... Man, somehow you really piss me off easily. lol

I have no qualms about being this guy's "cheap slut," obviously if you've been in a relationship for 3 years, and been friends for 5 thats not the reality. geez...

I'm a bit gruff, true. That can be hard to take. I may piss you off, but here's a little fact for you: you'd be better off with a gruff direct guy who stands for something than some wimp who will string you along.

The great irony of modern dating is that too many of the men are now the manipulators.... There's a whole slew of reasons why that's happened, but for now I'll just say: be wary of them. They're poison because they are masters of manipulation yet often have all the characteristics of the worst in male predatory behavior.

Glad to hear that you are planning to move on.

[Jaylei]

Well thanks, that last post was much nicer and I appreciate it