Getting a piercing ;)?

[Asip4u]

There was a thread on navel piercing and i must admit for me that's a turnoff. As for this, i think you should do what makes you happy. Don't do it for anyone else though, do it because you like it.

[dewilliams2]

That is why I am doing it...I only asked other women because in my research I had read some women say that they had experienced pain during sex with a man who had a pierced penis...I don't want to do it if it was going to cause a problem but I have not heard that from anybody on here or any of my friends.

[VincenzoG91]

Did you actually read any of the responses in this thread? Dude, people here gave you several excellent reasons to not do this. Why bother asking a question when you have already made up your mind?

[dewilliams2]

I hadn't made up my mind...this simply wasn't the only venue I searched for information...I read several articles, asked close friends, and talked to the woman that will be piercing it this evening...along with posed the question on this forum...to simply entertain the opinion of 4-6 people which is about all that answered in this forum would be sort of ridiculous...not to mention I'm pretty sure regardless of what counsel I am given it is ultimately my decision to make...although I do appreciate your concern for my member....I simply did not hear anything to deter me from getting this piercing...my only concern was hurting somebody during sex.

[dewilliams2]

Well it is done...It didn't hurt as much as I thought it would really would...I was kind of trying to think of something to compare it to and it is less painful than say a bee sting but like half.

I have some mild pain right now...no worse than say having a splinter...seriously not bad at all.

I have 2 barbells through the skin of the shaft....I would post some pix but I don't think any of you really want to see it considering most of you said not to do it....but I just thought I would bring you up to date....overall I'm very happy with it so far. I think it looks great.

Now I can't wait for it to heal so I can "test it out"....if you follow my meaning.

[IndiReloaded]

You did this to brag about it, not b/c you want one to fulfill some lifelong dream. Only idiots will be impressed by it. LOL.

Now, if you really want to impress, I suggest you cut off your own baby finger. That's all the rage these days.

[dewilliams2]

If I wanted to brag I would tell you how huge it is where as I'll honestly say I'm a very impressive average...so nope..not really to brag....I love all the gueses at my motives...maybe I just wanted it really bad and now I'm happy I got it?...but forgive me for sharing the enjoyment of my recent purchase.

[IndiReloaded]

I'm not 'guessing' your motives. Its not like you went ahead with this and kept it a secret.

Now I can't wait for it to heal so I can "test it out"....if you follow my meaning.

^Case in point.

Lets put it this way: if you were on a comfortable deserted island, but alone, I doubt that piercing your penis would be the first thing that comes to mind.

In our society, these types of things are usually born from insecurity and a need to somehow 'be different'. I suppose you don't feel distinctive enough for your own merits, which is a shame. You will regret this at some point, or at least look back on it as a silly thing to have done.

But, its not really different from the other types of behaviours people do for social approval. Yours is just, unfortunately, more permanent. Of course, its your body, but I just wonder if you have asked yourself the real reasons for wanting it.

[Petit Papillon]

Piercing in penis Sorry but... Yuuuk

[dewilliams2]

I'm not 'guessing' your motives. Its not like you went ahead with this and kept it a secret.



^Case in point.

Lets put it this way: if you were on a comfortable deserted island, but alone, I doubt that piercing your penis would be the first thing that comes to mind.

In our society, these types of things are usually born from insecurity and a need to somehow 'be different'. I suppose you don't feel distinctive enough for your own merits, which is a shame. You will regret this at some point, or at least look back on it as a silly thing to have done.

But, its not really different from the other types of behaviours people do for social approval. Yours is just, unfortunately, more permanent. Of course, its your body, but I just wonder if you have asked yourself the real reasons for wanting it.

I suppose a wonderful flip side to that coin is why would you want to be like everybody else? I hate normal people...and your analogy of a deserted island makes no sense...I'm not on a deserted island so what I would do there and what I do hear have absolutely no bearing on my actions...its just irrelevant.

And there is nothing social about this anyways...I don't go around flippin my dick out and showing people...I truly wanted this...I'm sorry it isn't what you consider to be acceptable social behavior but honestly who are you exactly to judge me? And who are you to decide what is acceptable social behavior...I have enough cultural anthropology to realize that 'acceptable, or normal' in some circles is not the same for as in others.

As for my comment about testing it out...it was a sex joke...I'm a perv and you would get that reading many of my other posts in other thread.

So look, I'm sorry, if you don't understand it, if it isn't your thing then don't do it...thats cool...I don't really care...I'm not looking to argue with you about my motives or be judged...honestly when I posted that it was done I considered the topic closed...I was simply bringing closure (as so many people do not to their threads) not bragging.

So once again I appreciate the concern you have for my member but at the same time I do not appreciate you taking jabs at my motives or character....it is not your place to render judgment when it is not asked for....this thread was strictly meant to determine what women thought about having sex with guys who are pierced and if they have ever been hurt by them...not what they thought about the people who got them.

[starbuck]

Whatever people choose to decorate their bodies with doesn't make a difference to me, as long as it's all done safely.

I mean I don't know if I could be with someone with a face tattoo and scarification is kind of squiggly, but it really would take some pretty extreme body modification for me to be completely turned off.

[VincenzoG91]

How will you practice safe sex now? Can you casually remove the barbell when you need to put on a condom? Or are you simply planning on numerous children and/or STDs?

[IndiReloaded]

I suppose a wonderful flip side to that coin is why would you want to be like everybody else?

Because, except for the relatively rare <2% of the population, you ARE like everybody else. A piercing doesn't change that. This is my point.

I hate normal people...

Whatever that^ means. LOL.

And there is nothing social about this anyways...I don't go around flippin my dick out and showing people...I truly wanted this...

I'm not questioning whether you want it, I'm just fascinated as to the why of it. And, you are ignoring my point about going around telling/bragging about it. You are definitely doing that. Totally social, not fooling anyone.

I'm sorry it isn't what you consider to be acceptable social behavior but honestly who are you exactly to judge me?
And who are you to decide what is acceptable social behavior...I have enough cultural anthropology to realize that 'acceptable, or normal' in some circles is not the same for as in others.

I don't think I made a comment on how 'acceptable' it is, only what I know about why people do it. Its sometimes done by those who were sexually abused as a type of rebellion in order to 'reclaim' their body. So don't mistake my posts for actually caring that you did it. I'm no prude. My motive is a fascination about the psychology of people who do these things to themselves. That's it.

So once again I appreciate the concern you have for my member but at the same time I do not appreciate you taking jabs at my motives or character....it is not your place to render judgment when it is not asked for....this thread was strictly meant to determine what women thought about having sex with guys who are pierced and if they have ever been hurt by them...not what they thought about the people who got them.

Cool. But LF is a buffet--you don't get to choose what is served, only what you eat.

[xyz]

Give us an update when you find out how it is. I know a guy who works at tattoo/piercing place who got his pierced. I don't remember where he had it done, but he said girls liked it once they gave it a chance. I'd be curious to find out if that was bs.

[dewilliams2]

They make condoms formed just for dudes with piercings so safe sex isn't an issue.

@ Indi...I'd like to think more than a piercing makes me stand out from other people.

And no...I have not bragged about it....4 of my friends know...mainly cause I got their opinions first, this forum now knows, and the lady that did it...thats it....so I don't get why your so hung up on that.

As to why, I thought I made that clear, I wanted it just like somebody would want a tat or other piercing or a pair of shoes...nobody questions when women get their ears pierced or other places...and no I was not ever sexually abused....is it really hard to believe that I simply think it is awesome? I mean I love Pink Floyd....my friend hates Pink Floyd but that doesn't mean that one of us is wrong...just that what one person likes 2 people don't necessarily have to like....so its not your dick....you don't have to do it....my motives are purely that I think they are cool.

You just don't seem to understand...and that is fine because truly you do not have to...but whats done is done and I'm no longer searching for opinions on it....I like it.

@ xyz...it will be probably 2 weeks yet...although everything is appearing to heal fine.