Wife & another man fantasy - please help

[Kaius]

Im glad that you are both happy.
But I am terribly uncomfortable with the idea.
Is wife okay with you boning another woman?

[Gigabitch]

I'm so glad you got everything out into the open. I hate sneakiness, and if you guys are into this, no sneakiness is necessary.

[misombra]

i don't know. call me skeptical, but i think this is bullshit. of course i did fall for a bunch of silly april fools jokes.

[Mybrandnewlook]

I think that by encouraging your wife to look elsewhere for sex you're playing with fire, and if your fantasy goes so far as to involve her having sex with you there--but not "allowed" to participate--you will damage yourself in both your own self-esteem and in her opinion of you.

In my experience, most women want to be with powerful people. Could just be my experience, though.