i was camping one time and i cuddled with a guy i was camping with. we didn't do the deed but we cuddled. it was fun and nice.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
i think that you should trust your gf with this one. besides, even if they DID have sex, you two weren't together anymore.
yet, i highly doubt that they did anything.
raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
It is bud, but what's even better is waking up in the morning with a beautiful girl nestled against you, you really care about. And it's a Sunday, and you can spend the whole morning like that if you want to. You will definitely get there DM, hopefully pretty soon.
I get that "calm" feeling when I'm around girls too
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
On topic: when I was about 19,20 I had a crush on this girl at uni, with the biggest melons you've ever seen. And she'd come over and hang out at my house, and we'd have "naps" in the middle of the day, and she'd push these enormous creations into my face. But she never let it get any further. I never even got to kiss her. So it can happen, but it depends on the girl. Usually if a guy wants to share a bed with a girl, it's not just for cuddles.
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
Who did the breaking up? That matters to.
She's was probably lonely and missed you and just needed to feel appreciated.
Just remember, if you break up with someone, you are settng them free from obligation. We have to accept the consequences of setting someone free which I think is the more important lesson for you rather than her honesty about what transpired while you two were broken up.
In our mind, we understand the rules of being broke up but in our hearts, we cannot let go at the same time. Emotions are strong and can overpower one's logic. And some people do keep secrets for a lifetime. Its a reality.
We learn about ourselves in relationship with others.