Originally Posted by
NBT
This is tough to agree with, yet it is ALSO tough to DISAGREE with.
On the one hand, who SERIOUSLY wants their S-O hanging out, one on one, with someone of the opposite sex? I don't.
But on the OTHER hand, isn't it a bit silly that we expect our S-O to cut off anyone they've ever known or been friends with, JUST because that other person is of another gender?
That's a bit much.
If her guy wanted to go get a beer with Jeff, it would be FINE. But going with Jennifer is a PROBLEM. Why?
Think about it: You either trust your man, or you don't.
It's a problem, because unless they're completely unattractive to each other and/or have been friends for a long time before the relationship, men and women have a tough time drawing firm lines of friendship. It's not saying he has to cut off all his femle friends from BEFORE the relationship, but new ones that come into the picture are certainly up for scrutiny.
I just don't trust a girl who takes other people's men out, especially when she has a man of her own she can take out. If she wants to hang out so bad, get two more tickets and make it a group date.
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