Is pornography cheating?

[KirstyM]

Yeah I wouldnt term it as cheating but that doesnt make it ok to do while in a relationship

[Illusional]

the strip clubs might be considered cheating because there is "intension" involved.

raverboy

[abercromqt20]

strip clubs aren't cheating i don't think, as long as ur guy isnt hooking up with the stripper. but i still wouldn't like it if my man was getting lap dances from random women. i mean when he can get it from me whenever he wants!

[Illusional]

yeah... believe that most people think that strip clubs are cheating, however i feel that both parties should be able to have fun. i wouldnt' care if my gf went to a strip club, through a batchlorette party, what not, because there should always be trust in a relationship. when it is broken, anything is fair game to be accuse of cheating.

raverboy

[blue]

i like to go to strip clubs its fun.

[gsgann22]

Hell no! It's always ok to LOOK, but when you start touching in ways it gets inappropriate. I'm a porn dealer, I sell the 1 hr. long tapes at school, and i'm totally pro-porn if it gets you aroused. Couples watch porn together sometimes

you sell porn? I'll bite, what kind?

[gsgann22]

male, no porn is not cheating, and any girl that admits to watching it goes up +1 cool points, and attractiveness, if she has her own and enjoys it +3.

[gsgann22]

strip clubs aren't cheating i don't think, as long as ur guy isnt hooking up with the stripper. but i still wouldn't like it if my man was getting lap dances from random women. i mean when he can get it from me whenever he wants!

if a guy has a open relationship, and a girl that will dress up for him and dance, then why go to strip clubs. unless it is a bachalor party then ladies you have to trust him until he proves you can't (and when that happens dumb his sorry ass.)

[abercromqt20]

for sure. i'm glad my bf doesn't really like strip clubs. even though i trust him totally with all my heart i would just rather have him watching me than some stripper!

[blue]

you know my b/f dosent really like to go to strip clubs i mean hell go and surley have fun but he usually goes for bachlor parties, or when hes single. i think its fun he thinks its kinda nasty to have a whole bunch of sweaty crotches all over him...ewwww.
we have eachother. hey maybe he can strip for me.
? 4 the guys do you mind if your girl goes to a male strip club?!

[ilovekm]

actually i wudnt mind if my gf went 2 a male strip club i think ppl shud have the rite to do wat they like

wat do u otha guys think

[gsgann22]

"? 4 the guys do you mind if your girl goes to a male strip club?!"

not really, wouldn't want her going all the time, but for a special occasion, no. Girls can get sex anywhere anytime they want, they don't have to go looking at strip clubs etc, so I would assume she was that she was just having fun until she gave me a reason to doubt her, then the relationship is pretty much over.

[blue]

i like male strip clubs but i have alot of fun at female strip clubs.

[nomas]

the strip clubs might be considered cheating because there is "intension" involved.

raverboy

What intention? No, I don't believe there's necessarily intention. Sometimes it may be a matter of you just want to hang out with the guys and the majority want's to go to the stripbar, so you go not to be a sour puss, but you are not headed there with any kind of intention..certainly not to "hook up" because, as far as I know, that rarely happens at strip clubs. You don't really socialize with the girls. They're there to do their job, not to meet people. But if you're going there to fulfill some sexual tension...I think it's sort of like porn, that's why I brought it up. Still, if it's not your intent to hook up with a dancer, which, like I said, probably isn't what you do at a strip club, then it's comparable to porn: no relationship, just a cheap erotic moment... (and I mean cheap not in the literal sense, rather as in "shallow"..before someone tells me strip clubs are actually expensive!)

Freddie

[cbee]

Yes, but I think there's the fundamental difference that when it comes to porn the person is one step removed - they are either in a photo or a video. With a strip club however, the person is there in the flesh. They are ogling a real person.

Does that make sense? I'm not sure it does anymore.