Anal Sex

[King Zarathu]

according to my gay friends anal sex feels REALLY GOOD!

but for me, i've never tried and i imagine i'd have to be VERY relaxed, possibly even sedated.

wait.. cybog is NOT your friend is he?!

[pope]

General rule for sex (any kind not just anal): IF IT HURTS YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG!

As for anal:
Short answer: you have to be willing, go slowly and lots of lube!
Long answer: [URL=http://sexuality.about.com/cs/sexualtechnique/ht/analmasturb.htm]Go here[/URL]
Remember: there are two muscle groups (sphincters) at the opening to the anus. The outer is under your control, the inner is not, and responds to stimulation. The best way to open the inner sphincter is to go slowly, gently probe the area and wait a few minutes. You do this a few times with small objects (ie your finger or as described in the link) and you can eventually move to larger objects without pain.

As for why, there are a lot of nerves in the anus (mainly at the opening), for men there is the direct stimulation of the prostate, and for women there is the indirect stimulation of the g-spot as well. Also the tight sphincters can be very pleasurable for men to penetrate.

PS I’ll try to find a better guide but that should do for now.

[bluesummer]

General rule for sex (any kind not just anal): IF IT HURTS YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG!.

Holy crap, I don't care how you do it, anal hurts pretty much EVERYONE the first time. Unless the guy has a dick the size of your pinky.

I for one, after having tried a few times, have become a fan of anal....it's almost more pleasurable. But for some reason my bf and I only end up doing it when we get wicked drunk. But whatever....too much of a good thing makes it less exciting I guess.

[whitechoc]

So when having anal sex do women like it when men play around with their pussy aswell.

[KaWaiiSkYe]

yesh, that would be a great combination.

[BlackRose]

Yes yes and yes. Don't just **** her. That's no fun. Play with anything you can get your hands on. Take is slow too. Build up to quicker thrusting. Works like a charm if done right.

[Necrid]

hmmm....I never tried it any other way, I've always had one hand on the hips and the other pleasing her

[BlackRose]

I've had it done to me where he just grabbed my hips and went at it. Too ****ing selfish and lazy to please me too. Ass hole... Oh sorry.. Small flashback...lol

[KaWaiiSkYe]

t'is okie. let it out.

[IKnowEverything]

I've had it done to me where he just grabbed my hips and went at it. Too ****ing selfish and lazy to please me too. Ass hole... Oh sorry.. Small flashback...lol

You're already getting ****ed, what more do you want? The man would probably lose his erection if he had to focus on double-pleasing your sorry ass. Take what you can get........Stupid, needy whores giving women a bad name. Get out of here with that shit.

Out

[Necrid]

hey look at the *******

lets all point at his stupidity

*points*

[BlackRose]

t'is okie. let it out.

lol Yeah... He was worthless. SOOOO glad I dumped his ass. lol

You're already getting ****ed, what more do you want? The man would probably lose his erection if he had to focus on double-pleasing your sorry ass. Take what you can get........Stupid, needy whores giving women a bad name. Get out of here with that shit.

Out

As for you... You are a ****ing ass hole. I never did shit to you. I guess maybe you are having a bad day but most people wont find you amusing in the slightest. I hope you have a miserable day you worthless piece of shit. And by the way, seems like you don't "know everything" after all! *rolls eyes*

hey look at the *******

lets all point at his stupidity

*points*

*points at "iknownothing" too* ****ing loser...grrrrr...lol

[KaWaiiSkYe]

he is just gay.

[BlackRose]

he is just gay.

LoL...Yes... And jealous. He wants it up the ass and can't get it! Poor wittle baby!

[Junket]

You are a ****ing ass hole. I never did shit to you. I guess maybe you are having a bad day but most people wont find you amusing in the slightest. I hope you have a miserable day you worthless piece of shit. And by the way, seems like you don't "know everything" after all! *rolls eyes*

*points at "iknownothing" too* ****ing loser...grrrrr...lol

Aw, you're lettin' him get to you, that's the only purpose for his idiotic ramblings, the best thing to do with his kind of people is ignore them. They're like little children, the more attention you give them, the more they scream. After enough negligence they tend to quiet down.

Believe me, I used to be one of those children.