Dating and pressure.

[tehwarlock]

How about finding another one? You'll never learn if you don't try.

[MerryH]

Well she said no, but Im not all that upset about it

Good attitude. At least you made a move instead of waiting around, pretending to be her friend, being passive-aggressive, wondering what could have happened, etc.

... ok I am, I'm slouching in my chair as i write this,

That's okay. Just don't let it continue. Cheer up soon.

i guess its back to my ps3 for the summer then

No. Start talking to other girls. See if they want to hang out. It's summer. Go have fun. Don't waste it on PS3.