Why do girls with boyfriends flirt?

[The Gent]

There's "nothing wrong" with making out with some dudes girlfriend?
So, with that frame of mind. If you & this girl start dating & some guy comes over to flirt with her. You wouldn't mind if they wander off to the dance floor, make out & arrange a dinner date?

That's bogus, bro.

[Mark1]

She has made all of the moves, though.

[vashti]

So what do I do if I want to steal her away from her bf? Or even just hook up with her?

If you want to maintain your moral standing amongst people who rank BF/GFs in the same category as husband/wife, just tell her when she loses the boyfriend, you'd like to take her out.

[Mark1]

If you want to maintain your moral standing amongst people who rank BF/GFs in the same category as husband/wife, just tell her when she loses the boyfriend, you'd like to take her out.

It is probably best to wait, you are right. However, we have planned for dinner Tuesday night. Should I call it off? Should I say something at the dinner?

[Mark1]

Basically, what are the do's and don'ts for this dinner?

[girl68]

the DO is "do cancel"
the don't is "don't go"

the other "DO" is what vashti says "when you lose the bf, I'm game"

[pisces25]

Just tell her you are more than willing to have dinner with her when she breaks up with her BF. Why on earth do you just want to make out with this chick? If making out is all you want stroll into your local niteclub on a Saturday night and take your pick. You are ultimately telling herher behaviour is ok no wonder people cheat.

[Mark1]

My best female friend told me just to go without any emotional attachment/expectation, and just see how she acts, and have fun.

[Mark1]

the DO is "do cancel"
the don't is "don't go"

the other "DO" is what vashti says "when you lose the bf, I'm game"

I'm not bailing.

[pisces25]

You are going with expectations though, you are expecting to make out with her.

[ctr916]

I think you should read up on polyamory.

[Mark1]

You are going with expectations though, you are expecting to make out with her.

Im hoping to. But Im just going to see what happens. How do I know she doesn't just consider me a friend?

[girl68]

We don't entertain cheaters here... you best move on to a forum that isn't about love but instead the "homewreckers" forums... they gotta be out there.

[Mark1]

We don't entertain cheaters here... you best move on to a forum that isn't about love but instead the "homewreckers" forums... they gotta be out there.

I'm a home wrecker because:

-She introduced me to her family
-She didn't introduce me to her bf
-She wanted to get together
-She gave me her number

Got it.

Like I said, no harm in going to dinner just to see how things unfold. What if she likes me just as a friend? No harm done in that case.

[girl68]

All wrong. You're a homewrecker because you're intentions are so much more than "being friends" you want to make out and hook up with her and because you are actively participating in her crossing the line on her bf. There is absolutely NO innocence on your part, that's why you're a homewrecker.