Fetish

[Euro]

I am not sure if it is a fetish, but Water and being wet get me going. My man fresh out of the shower =

[lahnnabell]

I think it's more than likely that you're wrong...

Don't be sore just because I won't tell you details.

[VincenzoG91]

I think that a transvestite can also be a repressed homosexual, just like a homophobe can also be a repressed homosexual.

[lahnnabell]

I think that a transvestite can also be a repressed homosexual, just like a homophobe can also be a repressed homosexual.

Well, if that's the case then he's still repressed 'cause he's been dating women since he and I broke up 5 years ago. I'm not saying it's not possible that he's repressed, I'm just saying I think it's unlikely. I know him as an individual better than anyone here so it really doesn't matter to me anyway. He and I had a good relationship for the time we were together. Bit rocky at times, but he's a great person. I just hope he's happy.

[lahnnabell]

I think the majority of transvestites are either transgender or repressed homosexuals. A straight cross dresser is a very confused individual, haha.

Eddie Izzard is a straight transvestite. Out of all the intricacies of our world, why is it so hard to believe that an individual can be any combination of things? It's rather narrow-minded to shut down ideas simply because you don't understand what might seem logical to someone else.

A good example are men that experiment with other men. You wouldn't believe how many of my gay male friends tell me they've messed around with tons of seemingly straight guys. Does it mean those guys are gay? Maybe, maybe not. I remember when I first felt an attraction to a female. I was very young and afraid of what it meant. Laughing at issues like this is very frustrating for those who do feel confused about their sexuality.

Issues aren't nearly as black and white as they used to be.

[MaidenMinx]

^^^With a condom? LOL Why? Push her 20 feet away and then shoot your load at her. THAT would be awesome! Wow, I just found my new goal in life, to have a zero g orgasm.... without a condom.

I guess as far as fetishes go I love big nipples and big clits. I think that creampies are way more erotic than shooting on a woman too (unless you're in zero gravity lol), maybe that is a fetish too?

Big nipples like pancakes or long nipples?... I have no idea why I am asking... I guess my curiosity gets the better of me?

[MaidenMinx]

After years of thinking I was into one thing or another I have determined that my fetish is experimentation. I have tried a lot of things once, thoroughly enjoyed them that time and never been interested again. It's very odd and was very confusing for hubby for the first couple of years. It can be very frustrating for him when he really enjoys something and I never want to do it again. Every now and then I will suggest something that will freak him out (my auto-masochism phase freaked him out, especially when I spoke of wanting to be bled. Luckily I found a middle ground that satisfied the pain urge for a while... then I got my first tattoo. Guess what? No more auto-masochism. Go figure. ) but most of the time he is open to suggestion. It doesn't help that we have a book called The Encyclopaedia of Unusual Sex Practices. Brilliant book but can be both shocking and inspirational. :p

[lahnnabell]

I consider myself quite an open-minded person. I don't have problems with gays, transvestites, or transgender people. Just because my opinion doesn't agree with yours doesn't mean I do not understand the concept.

Here you are using "experimentation" as a euphemism for homosexuality. You can cover up the actions as much as you want by changing your vocabulary, but the bottom line is that when men or women have sex with each other, whether it's the first and last time or they are just acting out on fantasy, they are motivated by a homosexual desire. When a cross dresser seeks a feminine role by wearing bras and panties and dressing up, he is acting on a homosexual desire... either because he desires to be a woman to please a man or because he desires to be a woman to please a woman. Just because it is role playing or based off a fantasy does not mean the underlying desire is different.

Okay, I see what you're saying. I was referring to homosexuality by its denotation: sexual desire or behavior directed toward a person or persons of one's own sex. In my mind, this definition of "sex" was explicitly anatomically based. I see now that you're referring to the more abstract concept of a person's gender identity. Like some men who say they feel like a woman trapped in a man's body.

[Incognito]

Big nipples like pancakes or long nipples?... I have no idea why I am asking... I guess my curiosity gets the better of me?

Long nipples are a huge turn on to me. I would say that both big and long are, but I have seen a few pictures where bigger was definitely NOT better (half of the woman's breast was nipple :S ). Give me a nipple the size of a finger tip and I'll give it the tongue massage of a lifetime!

[lovestoes201]

haha you can probably tell by the name :p but theres nothing i love more than a womans feet, definantly my fetish.

[Yet another guy]

Ok since it seems so popular, now I feel like opening up and revealing my deepest fantasy. Here goes...

I find the idea incredibly arousing that a girl sits on my face. Not just hover there a bit, but with her full weight and properly ****s my nose and tongue. Smothering me, then bouncing up and down to let me breathe.
Possibly combined with some bondage and light spanking.

A bit submissive, I admit. People seem to react shocked or at least surprised when I tell them about it. I just think it's arousing and fun

[lahnnabell]

Ok since it seems so popular, now I feel like opening up and revealing my deepest fantasy. Here goes...

I find the idea incredibly arousing that a girl sits on my face. Not just hover there a bit, but with her full weight and properly ****s my nose and tongue. Smothering me, then bouncing up and down to let me breathe.
Possibly combined with some bondage and light spanking.

A bit submissive, I admit. People seem to react shocked or at least surprised when I tell them about it. I just think it's arousing and fun

Haha, face sitting is pretty popular dude. While it's not totally vanilla, it's also not the craziest fantasy. I thought you were gonna tell us something reallllly crazy.

[Yet another guy]

I'd think so too considering that it's fairly easy to find such porn but everybody are still so shocked to hear of it.

[lovestoes201]

nothing i love more than a womans feet, so sexy.. definantly my fetish

[MaidenMinx]

Long nipples are a huge turn on to me. I would say that both big and long are, but I have seen a few pictures where bigger was definitely NOT better (half of the woman's breast was nipple :S ). Give me a nipple the size of a finger tip and I'll give it the tongue massage of a lifetime!

lol. Yeah, there's something weird about pancake nipples, especially when they are that big. Hubby and I spent an evening looking at a site dedicated to big nippled women and I was once again shocked by the variety of boobs out there and the variety of nipples that can top them. Helped me feel quite bit better about me actually. :p