My dear friend you didn't do any bad thing. Esteem is necessary in any rapport then only your rapport will be on good path. If he or she cant show you respect it means they don't love you. Even ask from yourself if you don't have esteem for the one then how could you say that you spend your life happily ever after. So if this happen just think for you and yourself. Can you maintain this relation? and do what answer you get. Have a great life.....