I just broke up with my girlfriend. Are my reasons justified?

[smackie9]

That's what happened at the site I left before I came to this one. They just loaded up the site with advertising and left it.....and then all of us left.

[Journey2Virtue]

totally justified. Good for you

[Journey2Virtue]

Dude, you know you're not controlling. The same ppl would tell you that her getting txts and calls at those late hours are red flags that you should pay attention to and that she's probably cheating. Do you monitor all her txts & calls? Do you ask her to check in with you throughout the day and where she's going? Do you follow her around. Do you demand to know where she goes and who's she's with at all times?
C'mon. Controlling & abusive behaviors are real societal vices & too serious to be thrown around lightly. If you don't inquire, you're foolish for missing obvious red flags. You're choosing not to see the truth. If you do inquire, you're controlling. This is a specific situation w/ a specific person, obviously she told you what his other txts were about.
You made a good call. DOn't bother with this girl anymore, and you really don't have to defend yourself