Swingers Experience?

[Only-virgins]

You're exactly right but ONLY under the right circumstances. I had an eleven year marriage that broke up for outside reasons (not related to swinging) that I won't go into but partying with other couples actually helped us. We would go play, have fun, come home and have a wild time just the two of us. We knew that it was just play, we loved each other and just shared the experiences together.

I don't think I'll do it again though, next relationship I get into. FAR
too dangerous if everything is not 100% perfect. My advice is don't do it. Some things are better left fantasy.

Not to mention how discusting it is.

[Splash]

You're exactly right but ONLY under the right circumstances. I had an eleven year marriage that broke up for outside reasons (not related to swinging) that I won't go into but partying with other couples actually helped us. We would go play, have fun, come home and have a wild time just the two of us. We knew that it was just play, we loved each other and just shared the experiences together.

I don't think I'll do it again though, next relationship I get into. FAR
too dangerous if everything is not 100% perfect. My advice is don't do it. Some things are better left fantasy.

At last, we tried it but mentally, not physically yet. It was fantastic.

[Splash]

we talked to some friends, and some of them are willing to try...what do u think? should we try it?

[K3vMySt3r]

iono when i hear this it sickens me... i'm a selfish kinda guy but in a good way i can't see my gf or future wife getting screwed by some other guy... or me screwing someone i dont even know or been even tested.. dats just TRamautizing... iono splash seriously i dont think it seems right... i can't even believe your friend even agreed wit it... dats just DISGUSTING... even if u were the next RON JEREMY i find it really horrible and nasty... but not as comparing to japanese shit porn where they eat shit for living

[uptownboy]

See, I'm like that too, I don't want to see my baby getting porked by who knows. Even if I'm getting it from his wife.

My gf told me she wanted to have a threesome with her and one of her friends(and me of course).

I would never want any of my buddys to **** her. That's why I can't understand how she is cool with sharing my **** with her friends.

[K3vMySt3r]

much agreed i concur with uptownboy...people who are into swinging or 3 somes... they'res something wrong in the relationship...really wrong i don't find it funny

[al407]

Hey...despite the other opinions that have been shared, specifically the ones that are not into the concept (totally ok...everyone is entitled to their opinion), I have a few things for you to think about before swinging with friends. First of all, yes, those that are into the swinging scene are a relatively rare breed, but there are more than you think out there. There are plenty of those that do it that are in perfectly solid relationships (and, of course, there are those that aren't). The point is, if you're going to do it...do it. You know if you are doing it for the right reasons or not. As far as swinging with friends, you do take a risk of making things really wierd afterward. Your relationship with your partner might be that strong, but is it really that strong with your friends. Are they worth risking losing over this? There are other avenues to pursue that I would suggest looking into. ALWAYS keep it safe...not any different than the responsibility in being safe in the ever typical hook up that went too far on the first or second date. It happens...be as safe as you can. (Further PSA's on abstinence would be defeating the point of what this person's inquiring about...albiet valid). Just my thoughts...not to offend or disgust anyone on the spectrum of opinions.

[Splash]

Well, I am more confused now, but the more I think about it, the more I get scared to do it. I can imagin it but I do not think I can through it. I might leave it as a fantasy,

[al407]

Nothing wrong with that. It is fun to just keep it in fantasy mode. While you're doing that, look into all the options...surf around on the web. Again, you'd be surprised what you'll find regarding the lifestyle and etiquette.