This is what guys absolutly hate....a girl that avoids them and won't just come out and say "Sorry but I'm not interested. Please stop messaging me". Just step up and be adult about this. How would you like it if a guy was using you? oh that's right you don't, so stop doing it to him.
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The thing is though, it's not that I don't like him. If he asked me out for a drink, I would say yes and go. He seems like a nice guy. The problem is I'm not sure how interested he is in me. He's mentioned going out but doesn't actually seem to want to do it. I would give him a chance if he really acted like he wanted to. But he's a bit hot and cold with me, sometimes not texting back, taking ages to respond, seeming quite aloof about the whole thing. So it's not like he's blatantly showing me he likes me.
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16-03-12, 03:38 AM #33
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Carry on then......
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Is that sarcasm :/ Originally Posted by smackie9
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16-03-12, 05:01 AM #35
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Ask him to call you. At a decent hour. Or meet for coffee, earlier in the day. Then just tell him straight: you enjoyed your 1NS but you were vulnerable and have never done something like this before. You are embarrassed. You aren't the 'booty call' type. Then tell him you like him and would enjoy getting to know him better but that if he is hoping for a repeat of your 1NS stand anytime soon, its not going to happen. Apologize for giving him the wrong impression, thank him for his time and tell him to please contact you if he wants to date. But if not, you totally understand and wish him the best. Originally Posted by Kealy
You had sex. It was fun but not how you really wanted to start a new relationship. Just explain this clearly and keep your dignity.
Your 'friend' sounds like a judgemental jerk. Ignore him and find a nice guy to spend time with. Maybe even this new one, depending on how he handles your pending conversation. Good luck.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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Absolutly not. If you are satified with whatever you two are doing then carry on with it. You are both adults. Originally Posted by Kealy
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