Originally Posted by
Frankiesayrelax
So even if I were to eventually change my mind on having children while I am with her, I foresee some furious arguments between us on the subject in the future. She is also aware of my views on religion and superstition though this hasn't phased her.
I wouldn't want children with someone like this either. You aren't likely going to change her, I hope you realize this. She's been brainwashed from an early age and its next to impossible to deprogram someone like that.
Be very careful you don't depend solely on her for contraception. "Forgotten birth control" and even holes poked in condoms do happen. I'm concerned she's sticking around you when you two are clearly on such different pages. Different pages.... books, hell, different libraries, sounds like. Good luck.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh