It's always hard when they're so attentive and are showing you loving actions but, they're not going to settle for just one woman. Players are charming. Most woman never hate a true player because he's often very much like James Bond in his sophistication and his psychological knowledge of what women need on our primitive brain level. That kind of attention is hard to give up Vashti so you're not alone in what you're going through. Lots of woman have gone thrrough it, particularily woman who have had the fortune/misfortune to have met a celebrity or sports figure that is fed through his own sexual ego. Sorry to sound trite, but its all the truth.
You can get through this by doing the mental work you need to do to become indifferent to him. Yes, it's early and you're still at the stages of anger and (probably) denial right now and still hoping that you distancing yourself from him will make him give you what you want. (????) The thing to realize though is that even if he does give you what you want... commitment... he'll likely never change from the ego driven man that gets his worth through the attentions of many women unless he gets some unbrainwashing. Think Tiger Woods. Settled down with his Modonna only to keep on with his whores. Knowing that, should help you to come to the stage of acceptance... If any of what I say resonates. If it doesn't then pull an Indi on me and tell me to stfu .
Be well soon.
Well done, Annie Oakley :o)About the target shooting: it turns out I am a pretty decent shot. %