Sad and lonely.

[Asip4u]

Yea, thanks. I dont see her...if I did it would be easy. You cant get peoples cell numbers through a pone book. All I can do is wait.



I dont really care. As long as she does something at some point.

That's how i kept thinking for most of High School man...one of the girls i liked..everytime she walks by and gives me one of those killer smiles, i'd be like..."Well guys, at least she smiled"..hehe

[Prodigal]

Well, if you don't see her, how'd you get her your number? I agree with Asip.. it is more profitable to have asked for her number, imo. Since by getting into conversation and asking her for her number, you get a good sense of how she feels for you. If she's feelin' you, you can kinda ascertain and infer that through her actions, body language, words, etc. If she's not feelin' you, then it's easy too... if this is the case, she wouldn't give you the number... among other signs. By giving her your number, it isn't so good because you never really know if it's a 'no'. It may be a while before she calls you; until then you may assume it's a no. Maybe something happened and she lost your number... in any case, it's more torturous on yourself that way. I hope things work out.

[Asip4u]

You're right Prodigal, it becomes a point where you're making way too many assumptions. By getting her number, you are in control and can take things either slower or faster (depending on the type you are). Some guys will call right away and see if she'll go out, others will wait for a bit. What people don't understand is how crucial that first impression is..If she doesn't like you at first, it's hard to keep things going (although not impossible).

By making yourself in the picture without doing anything about it, she will see you as too weak and will get turned off very easily. Most girls like when a guy is in control so by giving her your number it's pretty much saying that you want her to call all the shots, while some other guy will be taking a more aggresive approach and getting something in return for that.

[boobaa]

I am wondering, how may she react when she starts to know that I know her e-mail and address? The thing is, I haven't asked anyone for this kind of information, I tracked all down by myself, thanks to internet.

But well, at least it seems that I like missed my chance, again

[Prodigal]

Boobaa,

Maybe send her some e-mail, saying who you are and such? Like, "Hey, it's _______, from ________ School. Remember how we used to talk back then?"... then go on to say that you wanted to talk to her or you missed her so you got her e-mail. May turn out good or bad; but an e-mail address is not good if e-mail isn't sent! The home address thing may not be too good though... I don't know if I'd recommend doing that. Might seem a bit.. stalker-ish. The thing is, it really matters how well you two knew each other. If you were pretty good friends then it won't really matter HOW you got these things.. she'd just be happy to talk (in fact, some people would just feel this way).

[Only-virgins]

You're right Prodigal, it becomes a point where you're making way too many assumptions. By getting her number, you are in control and can take things either slower or faster (depending on the type you are). Some guys will call right away and see if she'll go out, others will wait for a bit. What people don't understand is how crucial that first impression is..If she doesn't like you at first, it's hard to keep things going (although not impossible).

By making yourself in the picture without doing anything about it, she will see you as too weak and will get turned off very easily. Most girls like when a guy is in control so by giving her your number it's pretty much saying that you want her to call all the shots, while some other guy will be taking a more aggresive approach and getting something in return for that.

See this is all like these stupid ass mind games I am sick of. Why would she think I am weak?. My first impression with her wasnt the best..oh well..whats the difference?. You say that lack of action may make me seem weak yet the other guy above says that doing to much makes you "stalker-ish". do you get were I am getting at?. I had no choice. I gave her my number by leaving it on her car..I know it got to her cause I did it twice...I dont get a chance to see her since I dont work or have school with her. Going to her house will make me seem "stalker-ish" like the guy above said. So what do I do?...basically..I am fawked and just wait so maybe she contacts me if she feels anything for me as well. I couldnt ask her for the number as I dont see her. I basically asked her out in a letter and placed my number there....What ever....

Boobaa: Send her your email. Just say what you mean in it. How she takes it is up to her...its the truth after all right?.

[boobaa]

Nope, I am not going to scare her.

[Prodigal]

Boobaa, there's no other way. If there is no other way to come into contact with her, e-mail is a better choice than the home address. If you don't, chances are incredibly low that you'll ever talk to her again.

[Asip4u]

Nope, I am not going to scare her.

You're right, living in misery and asking questions that begin with "what if.." is a lot better.

[Only-virgins]

Nope, I am not going to scare her.

Its just e-mail. Dont worry about it. She might take it well. You will only know when you do it and find out. Do it. Take this advice from someone who did try and failed.

[Asip4u]

Its just e-mail. Dont worry about it. She might take it well. You will only know when you do it and find out. Do it. Take this advice from someone who did try and failed.

Boobaa is scared because she might start liking him and then he won't be single anymore, right boobaa? I know i would be.

[boobaa]

Shit, there is no reply from her. I think it's hotmail. God I hate hotmail, spam everywhere and spam filters just suck the important messages. I am so ****ing mad. Hotmail ruins my ****ing life!