And he also agreed to wearing one but changes his mind last minute! Hes just telling her what she wants to hear to shut her up and he obviously doesnt give a crap if she does get pregnant even though he knowd shes not ready yet. That is not respecting her. That is the actions of a selfish man-sorry OP but u and ur husband need to communicate better and he needs to honor the promises he makes to you as well as not just saying things for the sake of it