Michelle23 I love sex too don't get me wrong but after years of being together it can get monotonous after 5 years and its not like your going to have sex twice a day like you did in the beginning. I wish. I believe you need to spice it up if you truly want to make each other happy. I mean date nights and all that jazz helps.
This girl sounds like I did is all I am saying, my ex groped me all the time it wasn't a loving kiss and hug it was always sexual and after a while it just felt perverted. I swatted him away because I got sick of being groped. He was also younger than me and wanted sex way more than I did. I didn't ever really have that spark with him, I think without that you're doomed.
Maybe she is just too comfortable. Both people have to want it and put the effort in, love has to be mutual or what is the point.