Thank you Smackie9, i will make sure to update. i really do appreciate the help. even if it was just to get it off my chest. i don't really feel like i can have this conversation with people i know. it is embarrassing. thanks again.
Thank you Smackie9, i will make sure to update. i really do appreciate the help. even if it was just to get it off my chest. i don't really feel like i can have this conversation with people i know. it is embarrassing. thanks again.
well, i guess that's it... huge blow up last night. it's over. meeting with attorney later today. she actually didn't even seem to care to leave our son with me. she took some of her stuff and left.
yea, that is fairly obvious now. apparently doesn't care about our son too much either. son asked where mommy was.. i didn't really know what to say. obviously i shouldn't say next door with him. i just said she had to go stay with grammy to help her for a few days... how do i handle this?????? i mean, she doesn't seem to care if he knows that she is next door, and i'm he is probably going to ask her today..
If you can afford it, bring your son to family counselling once you have everything sorted with the lawyer. This can have a huge affect on kids if not dealt with properly. He does need to be told that you and she have split but you both love him very much and he will still get to spend a lot of time with both of you. Dont fight or argue in front of him.
I wish you the best of luck and i hope everything works out well for you.
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"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
Well the hardest part is over, I hope you and your son get though this without too many bumps. Get full custody for sure.
i don't know that the hardest part is over.. i have to go home and see them, or at least the house next door every single day..
Imma? Is that you?
trolling, troll Op.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion