After waiting for so long, I ditched her

[BackUpOrGetStng]

What does courtesy cost?

It already cost him an hour and a half.

[searock]

Why? So she could ignore it for another hour?

To be polite and civil. Who cares what she would have chosen to do about it.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Polite and civil methods don't work on impolite, uncivilized heathens.

EDIT: Actually, that's not true, but if you're done, you're done, and politeness and civility don't matter.

[Wakeup]

I find her rude and with entitlement issues. I think you did the right thing by not waiting but in hindsight I think you would have been better to have left a message that you couldn't wait any longer and you were on your way home, this would have been the right thing to do only because now you regret it and even though she's was inconsiderate... you still want to get to know what other faults she has. lolzzz

My adivice: Let her contact you. You can than apologize for not being able to wait any further but it had put you behind in your own schedule.

On edit:

I don't need a women that will just piss my time away,

Lolzzz Well, there ya go.

[searock]

Polite and civil methods don't work on impolite, uncivilized heathens.

It doesn't matter what "works", it matters that he acted civilly and politely - for himself, not for anyone else. That's what I would have wanted to do if I had been him, at any rate. Leave the scene knowing that I had done the right thing, no matter what came out of it (if anything at all).

[BackUpOrGetStng]

He did do the right thing. He showed up at the agreed upon time.

[searock]

Yes - but he should have done the right thing when he left, too (i.e. text her with a simple "I'm leaving now. Have a pleasant evening." or something like that). Not for her sake, but for his.

[Wakeup]

Who knows, maybe he taught her a lesson and she won't dally again and be presumptuous in thinking that a guy will wait on her indefinately...

[BackUpOrGetStng]

What's right is clearly very subjective. I agree if he wanted to see her again he should've said something, but I guess he jumped the gun.

[Wakeup]

Well, if your ignore her and she'll be all over you advice has any value, she'll call him up now that he's said "fk it." If her phone aint ringing, that will be him... lmao

[searock]

What's right is clearly very subjective. I agree if he wanted to see her again he should've said something, but I guess he jumped the gun.

You're thinking in terms of reaching a goal, I'm thinking in terms of keeping up to my own standards of civility and politeness, for my own sake... regardless of her. Oh well, doesn't matter, it's done now and he's made up his mind about not contacting her anymore :-).

[Wakeup]

I think ditching her without explanation is for many peoples own standards as well.

Anybody want to take bets whether or not she calls him to find out where he got to?

[searock]

If I was her, I would forget about him.

[Wakeup]

Neither would I but then again I wouldn't have kept him waiting like she did either. If I had to, then I would have called earlier to reschedule if he couldn't wait. I wouldn't be surprised if he left either if I was that pretentious. *shrugs*

[searock]

Yeah - it does actually sound like they would make the perfect couple XD.