Lol no ~ I was being what you call facetious, read my other post previous. If he wants her out of his life just because he now feels she too old, which he said so, not because she isn't a loving great woman to him, only because of her age, & said he told her so, I don't believe or he'd not be here typing he'd be away dating young women he wants now. I feel for her, not him she may see him as her last love, for them to marry because 3 years he carried this on with her, he can easily move on quicker when breaking, can she?
Plus deal with this offline don't make it like guy down forum section 9 pages in ONLINE not in his real life taking care of things & beating it to death here instead as I previously said. Got to go out again now, but Harpo or dontaskme are welcomed to Pm me replies as I won't post in here as solved in my view. GL to both you & her, Harpo.