What Annoyed you today

[Petit Papillon]

I'm so lazy today... I literally spent my whole day on the couch ... :/

[qwertz]

I'm a little perturbed and very annoyed that today, a health professional basically hit on me. Kinda makes things awkward for me to go back...almost feels like im going to have to start everything over again with someone new :/

[DoesntMatter]

A doctor?!?! That's enormously unprofessional

[Petit Papillon]

I'm a little perturbed and very annoyed that today, a health professional basically hit on me. Kinda makes things awkward for me to go back...almost feels like im going to have to start everything over again with someone new :/

Did he do it in some crazy way or just simple asked you out or something ?

[DoesntMatter]

Still, a doctor is never EVER supposed to have any personal interest in patients. At least here in the US. Probably the same in England

[Sonrisa]

oh please, many doctor's are married to their patients

[doppelgaenger]

I haven't been annoyed for quite a while, so I'll rant about something that bothers me in general.

The way women shop.

When my GF and I were on vacation, we walked into three dozen stores and spent more than 3 hours looking for a damn black scarf. She finally found it and it cost less than $15. You know how that makes a guy feel? Not only was my [vacation] time apparently worth $5/hr, but I walked around for more than three hours looking for something that didn't benefit me at all. And every time we stopped at a store that sold makeup or some other kind of feminine product, she had to spend an excessive amount of time looking at all of it (never managing to buy not one single thing she looked at!). A man shops more efficiently - if I were looking for a specific scarf, I would have spent much less time looking, and if I didn't find it after 2-3 stores, I'd either settle for the closest match or I'd find another one that I like - or I'd just buy it online, and I guarantee no matter what, it would about the same price. Furthermore, guys don't just walk into stores just to have a look. We know what we want when we go in the store, and we usually find it the first time, because we know where to look!

God bless those little benches in front of every store at the mall. They certainly do serve a specific purpose. I can't wait for the teleportation machines.

[Sonrisa]

oh please, guys shop the same for computer/parts/other gadgets. I have spent half of my lifetime at Fry's.

[qwertz]

A doctor?!?! That's enormously unprofessional

Did he do it in some crazy way or just simple asked you out or something ?

My psychologist, so yeh a dr. He asked me "do you want to grab a bite to eat and drink later" he was polite and everything, but he was really flirtatious for the whole hr. If it was a medical dr or something like that i could just laugh it off, but this is the person i have spent the last 9 months having weekly sessions with, it took me 6 months before i felt comfortable enough to start talking more openly about things, and now im not even sure i want to go back...and i certainly dont want to have to see someone else :S

[qwertz]

I haven't been annoyed for quite a while, so I'll rant about something that bothers me in general.

The way women shop.

When my GF and I were on vacation, we walked into three dozen stores and spent more than 3 hours looking for a damn black scarf. She finally found it and it cost less than $15. You know how that makes a guy feel? Not only was my [vacation] time apparently worth $5/hr, but I walked around for more than three hours looking for something that didn't benefit me at all. And every time we stopped at a store that sold makeup or some other kind of feminine product, she had to spend an excessive amount of time looking at all of it (never managing to buy not one single thing she looked at!). A man shops more efficiently - if I were looking for a specific scarf, I would have spent much less time looking, and if I didn't find it after 2-3 stores, I'd either settle for the closest match or I'd find another one that I like - or I'd just buy it online, and I guarantee no matter what, it would about the same price. Furthermore, guys don't just walk into stores just to have a look. We know what we want when we go in the store, and we usually find it the first time, because we know where to look!

God bless those little benches in front of every store at the mall. They certainly do serve a specific purpose. I can't wait for the teleportation machines.

You obviously havent been shopping with my bf, he drives me crazy the amount of time he spends shopping!

[Charlie Boy II]

Qwert your doc definitely crossed a line, and me must know it.

My firm acts for doctors who end up with complaints/lawsuits over this kind of stuff. I can't believe they're so reckless.

I wouldn't go back.

[qwertz]

Qwert your doc definitely crossed a line, and me must know it.

My firm acts for doctors who end up with complaints/lawsuits over this kind of stuff. I can't believe they're so reckless.

I wouldn't go back.

My first thought was not to go back, but at the same time, i dont know whether i could face going through all that with a different dr and i dont want to turn back into the rather messed up person i was before, lol.

[Charlie Boy II]

Well obviously it's your choice.

Do you think you can maintain a relationship of trust and confidence with him? What if he asks again?

[Sonrisa]

My first thought was not to go back, but at the same time, i dont know whether i could face going through all that with a different dr and i dont want to turn back into the rather messed up person i was before, lol.

how about telling him upfront that you are not interested and you'd like to keep it strictly professional?
unless you'd be interested in marrying a doctor

[Petit Papillon]

Oh that sucks... Therapists should be extra cautious about what they say to their patients ...