What Annoyed you today

[qwertz]

Yeah, I don't know what came over me. Our eyes locked, she dared me to swear at her again, I though about it for a few long seconds, and then I did it anyway. Then she went wild and broke the glass.

I would swear at a partner who did to me what she did to you.

[misombra]

she has another boyfriend that she lives with and she's mad because you asked wtf is wrong with her?

whatever.

i am annoyed because i'm burning alive. the smoke is stunting my crops. they're saying we shouldn't use our swamp coolers and it's 100F degrees outside. cannot wait to get out of this state!

[Petit Papillon]

She should be kissing your feet and not throwing glasses under them for what she did to you . But it's past,right? Closing an eye on your past, my bf would never throw a glass at me for saying "What the **** is wrong with you?" and vice versa . Never. I consider it aleady a violent act.

[VincenzoG91]

No, the other guy is gone. He's out of the country for a year and she is packing up to move out of his house in July. At this point, if our relationship fails, it will be due to a mutual lack of respect. A relationship can potentially survive cheating, but it can't survive without mutual respect. The past is the past, but maybe we can't move forward from here. She is still moving out of his place no matter what, but she may need to find somewhere else to put her stuff, unless we can find the respect. Believe it or not, the cheating never even came up as an issue in our argument last night, it was all about respect. It's one thing to disagree about something. It's another to escalate that disagreement into profanity (me), property damage (her), and insults (both of us).

[misombra]

breaking glass and throwing things is typical behavior from a psycho like her.

[VincenzoG91]

breaking glass and throwing things is typical behavior from a psycho like her.

Only happened once in eight years, last night. There was another incident two years ago, when we had a bad argument while in the car. Her car was in the shop and she was driving my car, to drop me off at a friend's house while she was on the way to work. We argued about money problems and the car sharing arrangement. She pulled over to the curb and put the car in park as we argued. I reached over and shut the engine off and pulled the keys out of the ignition and she grabbed my arm, drawing blood with her fingernails. That's two physical incidents in an eight-year relationship, and in both cases, my injuries were easily treated with an ordinary bandaid.

At this point, I'm very annoyed. I realize that we may break up over this incident, and that's sad, but if the respect is gone then the relationship should end.

[vashti]

Landlord calls me and says I have to move my herbs from outside my window because the downstairs neighbor can see a hint of green through her skylight. Seriously.

The association where I live complained that my daughter must stop singing from on top of the roof. Yeah right, like I am supposed to chastise her while I am laughing!

Vincenzo, I don't like the throwing of objects like that. She is out of control, even if you provoked her.

Misombra - why can you not use your air conditioing?

[doppelgaenger]

Trying to create a website and im fcuking useless.

Need help?

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[misombra]

Only happened once in eight years, last night. There was another incident two years ago, when we had a bad argument while in the car. Her car was in the shop and she was driving my car, to drop me off at a friend's house while she was on the way to work. We argued about money problems and the car sharing arrangement. She pulled over to the curb and put the car in park as we argued. I reached over and shut the engine off and pulled the keys out of the ignition and she grabbed my arm, drawing blood with her fingernails. That's two physical incidents in an eight-year relationship, and in both cases, my injuries were easily treated with an ordinary bandaid.

At this point, I'm very annoyed. I realize that we may break up over this incident, and that's sad, but if the respect is gone then the relationship should end.

i've been in a relationship for 8 years and we haven't had one "physical incident." i don't think it's at all acceptable.

[misombra]

The association where I live complained that my daughter must stop singing from on top of the roof. Yeah right, like I am supposed to chastise her while I am laughing!

Vincenzo, I don't like the throwing of objects like that. She is out of control, even if you provoked her.

Misombra - why can you not use your air conditioing?

they're saying it's blowing smoke in the house. there's no escape. we're heading east in two weeks and i cannot wait.

[vashti]

they're saying it's blowing smoke in the house. there's no escape. we're heading east in two weeks and i cannot wait.

You and baby should just sit in the bathtub all day. Or go to the library or book store, where they are surely running their air conditioners. Where are you going in two weeks?

[misombra]

to new york and connecticut woohooo! we'll be there for two weeks and i plan on being a beach bum, maybe go sailing, and eating seafood everyday.

[qwertz]

No, the other guy is gone. He's out of the country for a year and she is packing up to move out of his house in July. At this point, if our relationship fails, it will be due to a mutual lack of respect. A relationship can potentially survive cheating, but it can't survive without mutual respect. The past is the past, but maybe we can't move forward from here. She is still moving out of his place no matter what, but she may need to find somewhere else to put her stuff, unless we can find the respect. Believe it or not, the cheating never even came up as an issue in our argument last night, it was all about respect. It's one thing to disagree about something. It's another to escalate that disagreement into profanity (me), property damage (her), and insults (both of us).

Someone who cheats how she did already has zero respect for you.

Need help?

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I have given up now, im so fcuking useless i dont have a clue what i am doing.

[VincenzoG91]

Someone who cheats how she did already has zero respect for you.

That makes sense, except why would she have ever lost respect for me in the first place? I'm physically fit, decent-looking and have a good enough job that I could afford to support her for years while she has been an on-again/off-again student. Maybe she started to resent how much I've done for her, because she will never be able to make it up to me.

[Petit Papillon]

That makes sense, except why would she have ever lost respect for me in the first place? I'm physically fit, decent-looking and have a good enough job that I could afford to support her for years while she has been an on-again/off-again student. Maybe she started to resent how much I've done for her, because she will never be able to make it up to me.

She meant , by cheating on you ,especially in such a cruel way, she didn't have resect for you since a longer time , it's nothing recent .