HELP before I say something bad

**Junsui** · 13-10-05, 03:52 AM

Originally Posted by Tone

Hey what did I tell you!

I know I know!

**cmt9000** · 13-10-05, 04:00 AM

I'm trying not to fall for this manipulation, that's why I came here.

I'm still at a lost what to do... she thinks she is all high and mighty...

Tone · 13-10-05, 04:03 AM

Then IGNORE HER. Tell her you don't want to talk to her while she's acting like a frickin little kid.

You know why she continues throwing her tantrum? Cause you are playin right into it... "Oh honey I'm sorry I love you and you're the only one for me" keep on replying to her e-mails, beggin her to talk to you... hell no. The more you feed into it the more she buys that she actually has the right to be upset.

This is so silly. I dunno who's worse in this situation, you or her!

**Rosebud** · 13-10-05, 04:05 AM

I would not acknowldge her messages anymore until you are out of work. Let her have her time to herself. But when you can, sit down with her and tell her how you feel. You do not need to apologize and you can't walk on eggshells because she may take something wrong. To be honest if she can't see that she is in the wrong in all of this, your relationship may not last. I would try and talk through this without apologizing and see what comes from it.

**Junsui** · 13-10-05, 04:05 AM

lol Tone

I would just send one email back saying you will talk to her about this after work and in person and that you won't respond to anymore emails about this.

Tone · 13-10-05, 04:06 AM

Exactly. I would simply say, "We'll talk when I get home." and leave it at that until you get home.

Maybe by then she will have realized how silly she is being.

**Vanilla Gilr** · 13-10-05, 04:07 AM

Seriously...keep some dignity. This woman has no respect for you...and will have even less when she knows she can make you jump through hoops.

**Debunkt** · 13-10-05, 06:14 AM

JESUS CHRIST! Has she never considered getting in a taxi? Bus maybe? How about an airplane? I sure hope she's blind, otherwise she's going to feel really guilty after SEEING other men walk by. OH THE HUMANITY!

What you really need to do is show her this ****in thread so she can know what a crack head she is.

**gHEXjt** · 13-10-05, 06:19 AM

Originally Posted by Vanilla Gilr

Most times...when people over-react accusing someone of something...they've done something wrong themselves.

This couldn't be more dead on! It's the ones accusing others that usually do it themselves.

**blackiesharley** · 13-10-05, 09:29 PM

OK, so tell us. What happened when you got home????

**Rosebud** · 13-10-05, 09:33 PM

I'm dying to find out what she said and if she realized she was wrong....

**Lloyd95** · 13-10-05, 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by Rosebud

I'm dying to find out what she said and if she realized she was wrong....

I highly doubt it...

**Rosebud** · 13-10-05, 09:43 PM

I know... but I'm hoping for his sake she did.

I don't think I've ever met someone that flipped like that over something so trivial. At least most people have logical explanations for their feelings...

**Junsui** · 13-10-05, 09:49 PM

Well, we only know his side of the story and we don't know what may have happened in the past. She did overreact and I think she's too old to be pulling stuff like that.

**Rosebud** · 13-10-05, 09:53 PM

I agree Junsui, but like he said this isn't the first time she has done that. I think she's really insecure and doesn't know how to handle it but again like you said we only know his side. I can't help but still be a little curious as to what happened after work..

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