Originally Posted by
vashti
You left out the most important part of my original statement. Love is what is left over after infatuation wears down if you are lucky. I already said this guy wasn't lucky. Not every relationship is meant to be.
If it's not meant to be then it should be ended early. Not extended for a period of 4 years with a quick escape afterwards with no work to make things better imo. Infatuation doesn't take so long to wear out, most of the time you're at that stage after year one.
Originally Posted by
vashti
Funny, only people who have never been married think LTRs are somehow equivalent to marriage. If they were equivalent, there wouldn't be so many people balking at taking the plunge.
I never said they were equivalent. Just that they have a lot more in common than LTR and casual dating.
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