Relationship issues? is this it?

[MerryH]

you are all saying that its normal,natural,bla bla bla...but is normal to overdo it with porn?to love porn more then his own girlfriend?to treat her badly?...theres no excuse for it,no matter what you are saying...

she has a big problem...and when its like he say to her "get lost,im watching porn"what will you advise her?to get used to it cos iits just normal?...geez wake up guys >.<

I admit that I skimmed through a lot of posts in this thread, but did anyone actually say that it's okay for him to love porn more than his girlfriend and that it's normal for him to tell her to get lost because he's watching porn?

This wasn't the OP's issue at all. Where did you get this?

[LdFilip]

i said "when its like"...i was trying to open eyes to those,who still think that its normal...cos its not...its outrageous...and she said that hes treating her badly...and that itself is unforgivable,not to mention that hes addicted to porn :/

and sadly,im sure that after few more posts,they will be saying that treating a woman badly is normal and as it should be >.< (sarcasm)

[MerryH]

i said "when its like"...i was trying to open eyes to those,who still think that its normal...cos its not...its outrageous...and she said that hes treating her badly...and that itself is unforgivable,not to mention that hes addicted to porn :/

and sadly,im sure that after few more posts,they will be saying that treating a woman badly is normal and as it should be >.< (sarcasm)

You're off your rocker.

You know blowing things out of proportion does not make your argument stronger, right?

[LdFilip]

i dont need stronger argument...all i want is to make people realize that its not normal and to give her some normal advice...cos shes really bad about it and all she got so far is,that she should get used to it...

[pisces25]

i said "when its like"...i was trying to open eyes to those,who still think that its normal...cos its not...its outrageous...and she said that hes treating her badly...and that itself is unforgivable,not to mention that hes addicted to porn :/

and sadly,im sure that after few more posts,they will be saying that treating a woman badly is normal and as it should be >.< (sarcasm)

Who is the 'they' you are talking about? In any case I agree with Merry. But back to the OP if she doesn't like him doing it and he doesn't change well she leaves. Simple. Good luck trying to find a guy these days that doesn't look at porn.

[LdFilip]

why am i the bad one?im just trying to help her...and ive never said that watching porn is not normal...but...what he is doing is not normal...thats an extreme.

[MerryH]

why am i the bad one?im just trying to help her

Everyone who has responded to her post is trying to help her. You shouldn't need to discredit everyone else to make your point (which relies on exaggeration and things that never even happened, anyway.)

[MerryH]

Ew, LdFilip, I just checked your profile and saw this:

"A man should love only 3 women: the one who gave birth to him ,the one who will give birth for him and the one who will be born "

In other words, "lol women. no need for them unless they're giving birth"

[LdFilip]

Everyone who has responded to her post is trying to help her. You shouldn't need to discredit everyone else to make your point (which relies on exaggeration and things that never even happened, anyway.)

only those who realised that they were wrong take it as discreditation...what things that never happened btw?...there was no exaggeration from my side,didnt she say that he doesnt respect her or that hes treating her badly?So move over my "words of encouragement",which are adressed to those who are trying to justify what he is doing.

i wander how would you feel,if your bf would love porn more than you and when youll ask someone for some advice and you will get just that (no need to look for it in previous posts,just an example)

[LdFilip]

Ew, LdFilip, I just checked your profile and saw this:



In other words, "lol women. no need for them unless they're giving birth"

hehehe...im afraid you are discrediting yourself now...cos everybody who has at least a bit of brain in head will understand to that quote righ

[LdFilip]

and btw...if you want to argue with me,we can create our own thread or move to private messaging,cos this thread is for helping,and not for your misserable tries to take me down or so...did you even realised,how lame is to look for something you can argue about in someones profile?what will you try next?arguing about my name?...wake up please

[MerryH]

cos everybody who has at least a bit of brain in head will understand to that quote righ

Explain it to me.

[MerryH]

and btw...if you want to argue with me,we can create our own thread or move to private messaging

No.

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[LdFilip]

i can explain it in one simple word..."faithfulness"

[MerryH]

OH. Faithfulness. Okay.

Wait, you didn't explain anything.