Originally Posted by
Indestructible
Anyway, I realize you guys probably have zero faith in me at this point, but I've set a new goal; I'm retaking my driving test Thursday, and should I pass, that evening, I'm going to drive over to my work and I'm not leaving until I've asked her out.
That's a good goal, just make sure you aren't making asking her out conditional on passing the test and you deliberately flub it.
As for the rest, well, we all fear something (the truly fearless tend to be insane). Just trust us that once you've finally taken the leap, you'll wonder what the big deal was all about.
When the fear starts whispering to you, crush it w/o mercy. You'll be fine, whatever happens.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh