So true. I can't do that. One thing I used to do for my exGF sometimes was if on Thurs night or Friday morning she talked about all the chores/cleaning or whatever needed to be done and how she would do it on saturday while I was out (usually helping my mother with her catering event/business). Since I was off on Fridays I would just get everything done and when she came home she would find a cleanass house, fridge stocked, and dinner and wine waiting. Prolly spoiled her too much, but thats just my way of doing something nice.