Originally Posted by
searock
BackUp, do you believe that cheating is wrong? If so, then by sleeping with a woman who is in an exclusive relationship, you are allowing something that you personally think is wrong to happen. Therefore *your* behavior is wrong (never mind hers), according to your own moral code. It's like seeing a puppy being kicked to death by teenagers, and not even trying to stop them, because "they'd do it with another dog anyway".
Well, his argument is that theft, rape and killing a dog is not consentual. Cheating is. He's got a point. Still thinking about this one. Stung seems pro-choice to the nth degree. But if that's the case, then why hold anyone to any standard regarding sexual faithfulness? Why not just be completely sexually free, with himself and his partners?
Curious, but where is your boundary on this, Stung? Do you think its okay for a drug dealer to provide drugs to minors? When does 'choice' become active for you?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh