Why do white women never date oriental guys?

[brokenhe@rted]

Then why do most guys prefer smaller girls?

They make their junk look bigger??


I didn't grow up round Asians so think that I had a type already by the time I'd met any. I have only ever fancied 2...

[the_robot]

They make their junk look bigger??

I don't think it's that, I can't really tell why, but I relate small size with femininity and big size with masculinity. When I see one of those girls over 6 feet and just plain big, I see them as masculine. I'm trying to figure out this one.

[vashti]

Then why do most guys prefer smaller girls?

It makes them feel more masculine, just as bigger guys make women feel more feminine.

[bluesummer]

^ Yes, that was my point. I just assumed everyone would get that.

[the_robot]

It makes them feel more masculine, just as bigger guys make women feel more feminine.

^ Yes, that was my point. I just assumed everyone would get that.

What I don't get is why big = masculine and small = feminine..

[bluesummer]

Maybe it's a cultural thing. On the whole, it seems that most people have the perception that a man is more broad-shouldered, taller, and more muscular than his woman. Basically mass and muscle evoke an image of 'masculinity'.

Of course not everyone thinks this way. I'm thinking robot is into the 'big girls'.

[vashti]

What I don't get is why big = masculine and small = feminine..

Big is considered masculine because women are physically weaker and depend on men to act as protector (if necessary). Smaller is more feminine because it allows men to feel as though they could act as her protector.

That said, I am relatively tall for a female (5'8"), so it takes a pretty tall guy to make me feel this way. And yeah, it kind of sucks. haha

[the_robot]

I'm thinking robot is into the 'big girls'.

LOL no, I haven't thought any girl bigger than me good looking, the biggest one I've thought good looking was a inch or so shorter than me and her body was half of mine...

Big is considered masculine because women are physically weaker and depend on men to act as protector (if necessary). Smaller is more feminine because it allows men to feel as though they could act as her protector.

That makes sense... I guess males are programmed to defend the herd, so they look for a females they can protect...

[bluesummer]

That said, I am relatively tall for a female (5'8"), so it takes a pretty tall guy to make me feel this way. And yeah, it kind of sucks. haha

Same here. I once had a crush on a guy that was 5'7". He was beautiful, and sooo nice. His friends wanted to set us up, but.....I'm over 5'10" in heels. I would dwarf the guy, and on some base level I couldn't get past it. Argh!

[tjchan76]

"ORIENTAL" ?!? ARE YOU effing SERIOUS???

People, it's "Asian," not "Oriental." It's friggin 2010. This is so effin embarassing.

[girl68]

"ORIENTAL" ?!? ARE YOU effing SERIOUS???

People, it's "Asian," not "Oriental." It's friggin 2010. This is so effin embarassing.

You're an idiot. Asian includes East Indians and for the purposes of this thread we are specifically talking about ORIENTAL ASIANS.

[Mard]

^ asian also includes middle easterners aswell.

[xxazurexx]

^ asian also includes middle easterners aswell.

Yes, in the UK it does. We class them as Asians and they class themselves as Asians or Azns for short

In the US, Canada though, they tend to refer to Asians as the Chinese, etc.

[xxazurexx]

It can get pretty confusing....lol

[Mard]

^ i think asia should be divided in two continents, forexample western asia like middle east, central asia and India to have nothing in comman with east asians, infact much of our history is actually closer to Europe then east asia or africa for that matter