Originally Posted by
gia01
aah I agree with you on this. I guess I shouldn't have brought out the money topic :\
You were fine to bring it up once. Its polite to offer to pay your share. A man isn't *obligated* to pay your way, its a gift that should be acknowledged as such when he does.
What you should have done, after his 'what pizza?' comment was to say something like 'oh, there was this lovely man who paid for my pizza and I wanted to thank him'. Return his light banter. Pressing your point actually takes away his pleasure at doing this small trifle for you. If you are that concerned, buy him his coffee next time the two of you are out, but I think you need only thank him at this point.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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