Oops.

[Junsui]

wow lol Everything has been said already. I agree with Independent. Maybe some anger management classes could help?

[Tone]

The **** is wrong with you? I hope this is a joke, you don't just let somethin like that slip, this can't be serious.

see but above all depends on a training, 99% of the women are looking for men with these qualities
1 - Bad guy (or atleast badguy image)
2 - careless
3 - wears FUBU but has less then $10 on them most of the time
4 - once can use them and leave them
5 - still seek good out of that negitive image
so therefor most women endup being betrayed and then they complain alot
have you never seen a meanest dude with the yankee hat on beating the crap out of his gorgeous G/F cus she didn't have enough money to buy him a blunt?
and those men will not apologize

You want a tissue?

I wouldnt go back out with a guy that said that in public... no matter how many times he apologized. It just says a lot about your character (not positive) and I would sure hate to have to worry about minor incidents or silly accidents from there forward.

So what does staying with someone who continually lies and uses you say about your character?

[Rosebud]

I knew this thread was going to get serious once everyone saw it...

[sweetkiss4one]

If he couldn't control himself when something like this happened, how would he react if something even worse occurred???

There would be no way I would ever forgive a boyfriend if he ever talked to me that way!!!

[independent]

So what does staying with someone who continually lies and uses you say about your character?

It has raised some serious questions in my own mind about myself, and those are things that I am working on at the moment. But it says even more about HIS character (which was the reference I was trying to make in my post above).

At any rate, I've not been very successful at ending this particular relationship over the last two years (several major attempts), which is why I ended up here to get some advice and support on the matter.

Perhaps I should stick to my own threads. It feels sort of odd to have to defend myself in someone elses...

[Stevo]

We'll we are finished. I went to her house last night and she was bawling her eyes out. She said she doesnt want to see me again or for me to talk to her again. Her friends said to stay away from here today at school. AHHH SHIIITTTT.

[Mish]

I knew this thread was going to get serious once everyone saw it...

I tried to brighten things up Rosebud, oh I tried ):

Stevo, I hope you learned something from all of this. Now cheer up and promise yourself you'll be nice from now on

[Stevo]

I tried to brighten things up Rosebud, oh I tried ):

Stevo, I hope you learned something from all of this. Now cheer up and promise yourself you'll be nice from now on

yeah. wont be doing that again. I feel like crap though I really like this girl.

[Rosebud]

you have to really learn to think before you speak. I know things can slip but if you really care for someone you have to work on that so you don't repeat this again. my mom always told me "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"

[Mish]

my mom always told me "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"

This reminds me of a Jiminy Lummox quote "If you can't do something, why do anything?"

[bluesummer]

My gf and I are having a good time and she gets up with her pop in hand and drops it on my lap and it soaks me. I said these exact words "FU*& you stupid cu%T faced W$%RE.

Wow. I read everybody else' responses, and they were pretty spot on.

All I can say is if you were my bf, you wouldn't be after that comment. Those are like, the worst words you can say to ANY woman, nevermind your gf. Even in moments of tyrannical rage, my bf has never said anything so hideous. Just.....wow.

[whaywardj]

My two cents:

Stevo, you MUST a pre-teen to be so idiotically thoughtless, so thoroughly self-centered, and so lacking in self-control.

THINK: Beyond what everyone had already rightfully blasted you on, she's a female; you're a male. Were she to put up with such an UTTERLY hostile remark as you offered her, what's to make you think she wouldn't also put up being slapped around? She can't POSSIBLY return to your fold after that without sending a signal she WOULD put up with you hitting her. It's not so much the WORDS women take so seriously. It's what the words IMPLY they might be getting themselves into if they DO put up with such verbal abuse as you gave her. She is DEAD RIGHT to have nothing more to do with you. NOT because of you as much as because of her own principles. EVERY woman should immediately and thoroughly wash her hands of a man at his VERY FIRST abusive behavior. She has. Good for her. Trying to re-gain her in any way will do nothing more than prove to all you INSIST on having your way. In this case, it's an insistance which is not well-received by any. Leave her alone now. You blew it. Totally. It can't be salvaged. Salvage yourself instead.

[Lloyd95]

How does that just slip? Do you have tourettes or something?

This made me laugh!

Dude, Stevo, my man. I"m with 'ya. that ho totally had it coming to her! Shoulda b*tch slapped her while you had the chance!

SEriously though; go over to her house. Take one of those Mega sized sodas you find at 7-11, then when she answers the door, pour it all over yourself. Then start calling yourself a stupid fckin c*nt/wh*rebag; then have her join in and see if it makes her feel better!

[updraft]

We'll we are finished. I went to her house last night and she was bawling her eyes out. She said she doesnt want to see me again or for me to talk to her again. Her friends said to stay away from here today at school. AHHH SHIIITTTT.

Well Stevo...I think you may have learned a valuable lesson here. Never insult anyone in this manner again, especially the one person you say you care about. People in this thread have blasted you (myself included) and I have to say you deserved every inch of it. But having said this, I think you are very young (15-16 maybe?) and being quite inexperienced with the opposite sex you have to pick up the pieces and move on and tell yourself the next girl(s) you date will never have to go through that kind of abuse.

[Tone]

It has raised some serious questions in my own mind about myself, and those are things that I am working on at the moment. But it says even more about HIS character (which was the reference I was trying to make in my post above).

At any rate, I've not been very successful at ending this particular relationship over the last two years (several major attempts), which is why I ended up here to get some advice and support on the matter.

Perhaps I should stick to my own threads. It feels sort of odd to have to defend myself in someone elses...

Sorry, I wasn't tryin to attack you, just hoping I could maybe help you see your own situation in a different kind of light... it's so funny how (I'm guilty of this too) we can give advice so easy but when we're in the nearly EXACT same situations, all logic goes out the window.

SEriously though; go over to her house. Take one of those Mega sized sodas you find at 7-11, then when she answers the door, pour it all over yourself. Then start calling yourself a stupid fckin c*nt/wh*rebag; then have her join in and see if it makes her feel better!

haha actually this would be good!