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    Well honey in all honesty, this guys just sounds horrible. I know this is only your side of the story and you could be a little too insecure at times but that's doesn't explain any of his actions that you explained here.

    I think when it all comes down to it if you want to fix this problem permanelty you'll need to do something about him and that means get rid of him , he is doing no ogod for you. But if you don't go that route the only thing you can do is try and do the things I suggested above and just deal with him being such a jerk!
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    its weird aswell, the last few weeks, even before i found out i was pregnant, i was considering that maybe enough was enough, i no this is harsh and silly, but i just don;t think i could bring myself to do it unless we had a huge argument and he said it too. i think its because ive been with him so long. I also had this dream the other day whereby it was like the first stages of the relationship and your completely infatuated by the other person, your always smiling with them around and its so exciting and in the dream i was with this guy, not doing anything rude just hanging out and when i woke up i felt bad, do you think maybe that is what i want, an exciting relationship, because in all honesty, my relationship at the moment is kinda routine

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    well not becasue it's routine, all relationships at one point turn into a routine and lose the beginning excitement, but it goes into a better stage.

    So yes hun, I do think that's what you want! and what you need. You know yourself your not happy, always worrying about him and what he's doing and the way he treats you. I don't incourage people to start a fight to break up, but in your case why don't you just go out with you friends and start having fun (not looking for a guy or anything) but you know it's goin to upset him, and it's something you want to do so go. If you argue about it then just spill your heart out to him abut everything. But I recommend talking to him about all this the mature way instead of starting a fight first.

    you know anything your going to say he's not going to like anyways, but it can't hurt anymore than it already does!
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    i think your right. i am going to go out with my friends and have a good time and then see where it goes from there. thank u for your help, im sure ill be back soon with some other issue, since im like an emotional wreck at the moment. thanks agen xoxo

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    hey i have always wanted to ask , and since you got it done ... what do they do when they abort you ?

    was it like you take a pill ? they stick something in you ? i have always been curious ...

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    [url]http://www.pregnancy.mb.ca/cpc-abo.htm[/url]

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.am.me
    Basically, my boyfriend is kinda annoyed at me because i don't have a high sex drive. Its not that i don't enjoy having sex with him and i'm sure its not because i want to have sex with other people. Its just i never seem to want to have sex, don't get me wrong when we have sex i do enjoy it but i never seem to want it in the first place. Is this common or not?

    I think it may be because its not as exciting anymore and the fact that he asks for it instead of just making a move. I don't know how to make it more exciting and i don't know what to do because i feel that he may cheat on me because he's not getting enough from me. Is that paranoidor not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    [url]http://www.pregnancy.mb.ca/cpc-abo.htm[/url]
    Interesting, objective look at the options. Notice its Canadian (Winnipeg). Thanks Miso.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    Don't mind if I ask but if you don't really want sex,...why have a boyfriend?
    Having a boyfriend aint just about sex, would help if there were loads of it though lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.am.me
    i think your right. i am going to go out with my friends and have a good time and then see where it goes from there. thank u for your help, im sure ill be back soon with some other issue, since im like an emotional wreck at the moment. thanks agen xoxo
    No problem sweetie! Good I'm glad your going to go out. you need to right now. you need to have fun and be with people that really care about you!

    And don't worry about being an emotional wreck, it happens to the best of us and your going through a lot at once so it's understandable.
    If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    No problem sweetie! Good I'm glad your going to go out. you need to right now. you need to have fun and be with people that really care about you!

    And don't worry about being an emotional wreck, it happens to the best of us and your going through a lot at once so it's understandable.
    i am an emotional wreck, and almost everyone i know is. but this doesn't mean, you can't enjoy life – i do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Converse
    Having a boyfriend aint just about sex, would help if there were loads of it though lol.
    What else is it about?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    What else is it about?
    Going out, having a laugh, loads of hugs etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Converse
    Going out, having a laugh, loads of hugs etc.
    awwwwwwww............you just say that cause you have one night stands.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins
    awwwwwwww............you just say that cause you have one night stands.

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