Random Sex/one nighters

[indigosoul]

last time I checked, girls had a monopoly on sex. I've never known a guy to whip out his dick and 10 girls line up to f*ck him. Now reverse the situation: if a girl asks 10 guys to sleep with her, what do you think they will say? We actually have to work for sex. It's not as simple as being attractive. We need to have confidence, make her laugh, be aggressive, say the right things, and impress her. So I think it's alright if a guy has a one-nighter.

OK Neo. So, if 10 girls line up for sex with any guy, then we have equality? Is this your criteria?? IF this were true, then its NOT okay for a guy to have a one-nighter? Don't hedge now, we want to know.

[NeoSeminole]

Don't play semantics with me. I gave you an example to illustrate my point that guys have to work for sex. That's not my only reason why it's okay for guys to have one-nighters. I must go to sleep now. Good night.

[indigosoul]

Don't play semantics with me. I gave you an example to illustrate my point that guys have to work for sex. That's not my only reason why it's okay for guys to have one-nighters. I must go to sleep now. Good night.

No they don't. They can pay for it. Sorry, I hear a double standard here.... Better sleep on it and try again tomorrow...

[Only-virgins]

OK Neo. So, if 10 girls line up for sex with any guy, then we have equality?

No, then we have Chaos...lol

last time I checked, girls had a monopoly on sex. I've never known a guy to whip out his dick and 10 girls line up to f*ck him. Now reverse the situation: if a girl asks 10 guys to sleep with her, what do you think they will say? We actually have to work for sex. It's not as simple as being attractive. We need to have confidence, make her laugh, be aggressive, say the right things, and impress her. So I think it's alright if a guy has a one-nighter.

Wow, that is pretty brilliant though.

NeoSeminole = 1
LF girls = 0

[indigosoul]

No, then we have Chaos...lol



Wow, that is pretty brilliant though.

NeoSeminole = 1
LF girls = 0

Did you even read my last post OV?? That post is BS. A guy can get laid as quickly as he wants if he's willing to pay for it. 10 women, 100, or more. But, WHY doesn't he? And what do you think of guys who do??

[clynn]

last time I checked, girls had a monopoly on sex. I've never known a guy to whip out his dick and 10 girls line up to f*ck him. Now reverse the situation: if a girl asks 10 guys to sleep with her, what do you think they will say? We actually have to work for sex. It's not as simple as being attractive. We need to have confidence, make her laugh, be aggressive, say the right things, and impress her. So I think it's alright if a guy has a one-nighter.

Yes, this may be true ALL OTHER FACTORS BEING EQUAL.

ie : a hot guy and hot girl both with equal incomes, charm, social status, education, etc.

HOWEVER...that is pretty unlikely.

So what about an ugly girl? (and this isn't me picking on ugly people, cuz of course it is subjective).................someone who doesn't have as much luck with men.........at all? A woman who is 35 adn a virgin?

Your logic is completely lost on me.

[Teezy]

never had a one-night stand. I'm more of a girlfriend kind of guy if you know what I mean.

[misombra]

last time I checked, girls had a monopoly on sex. I've never known a guy to whip out his dick and 10 girls line up to f*ck him. Now reverse the situation: if a girl asks 10 guys to sleep with her, what do you think they will say? We actually have to work for sex. It's not as simple as being attractive. We need to have confidence, make her laugh, be aggressive, say the right things, and impress her. So I think it's alright if a guy has a one-nighter.

that's like saying that it's alright for a woman to have an affair since married men are more attractive than married women.

it's not our fault men are so easily persuaded into having sex.

[NeoSeminole]

indigosoul, to answer your question - b/c it's illegal in the US. It also takes no effort besides paying money to have sex with a prostitute. So there's no sense of accomplishment. Next time you want to use a smiley to be cutesy, think before you type. You just made yourself look bad.

clynn, maybe those ugly girls can hire gigolos to sleep with them. On a serious note, what about ugly girls? There are many things a girl can do to make herself more attractive. She can wear makeup, jewelry, perfume, dress nice, get her hair done, and work out. There is no excuse for a girl not to look attractive unless she was born with a hideously ugly face, which is rare. What about ugly guys?

Misombra, huh?

[indigosoul]

indigosoul, to answer your question - b/c it's illegal in the US. It also takes no effort besides paying money to have sex with a prostitute. So there's no sense of accomplishment. Next time you want to use a smiley to be cutesy, think before you type. You just made yourself look bad.

Huh? You don't know what you are saying. AND you're telling me to think!! That's funny, LOL!!


So... to recap: a man having a one-night stand is about a "sense of accomplishment". LOL!!! But if its a woman, she has no self-respect.... riiiiiight. Like I said, DOUBLE STANDARD. Thanks for clarifying.

Seems to me you just "made your own bed", Neo. All by yourself.

(since you like them so much)

...NEXT!!

[Converse]

Huh? You don't know what you are saying. AND you're telling me to think!! That's funny, LOL!!


So... to recap: a man having a one-night stand is about a "sense of accomplishment". LOL!!! But if its a woman, she has no self-respect.... riiiiiight. Like I said, DOUBLE STANDARD. Thanks for clarifying.

Seems to me you just "made your own bed", Neo. All by yourself.

(since you like them so much)

...NEXT!!

Well said mate!

[indigosoul]

Well said mate!

Thanks. Well, I actually don't enjoy this kind of thing (Neo won't believe it tho). I feel a little like a bull in a mental china shop when I do this. BUT, I really don't think its okay for these kinds of statements to go unchallenged. BOTH young men and women need to think about these things and how it affects our relationships with each other.

I think if you're into one-nighters, then FINE, but don't say its okay for you and not someone else. Same as if you're not (personally, I'm not, but whatever so long as its safe sex). Anyway, double standards produce resentment at best and chaos at worst. IMHO and FWIW.

[NeoSeminole]

indigosoul, when you show me how guys and girls are biologically hardwired to think the same I will listen to your "double-standard" argument. The simple truth is it's easy for girls to get laid. Guys have to work for sex. We need to have game. This is why guys who are successful with women are called "pimps" or "players" while girls are called "whores." It's easy for you to say no to a guy who wants sex. When you sleep around with many guys, people start to think you have issues (in most cases this is true).

I love how you silly women love to spout your nonsense feminist rhetoric when it suits you. Nobody complains that a disproportionate amount of men fight in wars or that women are allowed to compete in men's sports but not vice versa. It's okay though b/c I think men and women are different and I don't try to obscure these differences by pretending they are the same. Double-standard? Not really. It makes sense when you analyze the situation.

[misombra]

::yawn::

[carpflounder]

Girls who have one nighters are good for just that: ****ing one night. Hey, I got no problem with ya. But I would never ever have one of you as my gf.

Sluts are fun. Just remember guys: You can't turn a Ho into a Housewife.