What makes her attractive?

[vashti]

Foolhardy and silly? No.

Inexperienced, yes, but that you will gain. Enjoy the newness while it lasts. I mean it. There is nothing like the first time, although you might come close.

[Junket]

Foolhardy and silly? No.

Inexperienced, yes, but that you will gain. Enjoy the newness while it lasts. I mean it. There is nothing like the first time, although you might come close.

That's just it.

There's the logical part of me that keeps tellin' me this isn't going to last, keeps reminding me all of the reasons why it can't last. And it makes the other part of me want to skip to the hurt to get it all over with.

[vashti]

Why are you so sure you will be hurt? You seem like the marrying kind to me, ratherthan the love 'em and leave 'em kind. You may very well marry this girl.

[CAM]

Hee hee! No, I'm not Misombra. I do enough posting as myself, don't you think? Plus, your description of the attractive girl does not fit my Scottish self.

Misombra has a really cool screenname, doesn't she?

Yes, it is a great screen name. So, how do you know what she looks like? Are you good friends? I think she thinks I'm a freak because of my "I'm a shut in" comment in an earlier thread! I'm not really a shut in

[Zach]

That's just it.

There's the logical part of me that keeps tellin' me this isn't going to last, keeps reminding me all of the reasons why it can't last. And it makes the other part of me want to skip to the hurt to get it all over with.

Fras.. You should know better! Don't make me slap you!

[Junket]

Why do you guys make me out to be the crazy one?!

Stop encouraging my irrational side!

In any case, I can't help but think about all those people, people that come onto this site everyday saying "everything was great, I was engaged, or I planned to get married but then-". What makes me any different?

Hell, my situation is a lot more inconvenient and hard to work at than most of these people's for so many reasons.

[lilairsoftdude]

i would say the kind of style she dresses with, and eyes

[Gigabitch]

Like I'm bein' serious here, this kind of insecurity has plagued me all my adolescent and teenage years. That's why I rarely pursued any relationships until now, I was afraid of being judged as naive and stupid. I hate being judged, I often go out of my way to avoid it minus a few exceptions.

Fras, no one will ever, and i mean NEVER judge you as harshly as you judge yourself. So lay off you. You deserve support. You deserve love. Go get it.

Yes, it is a great screen name. So, how do you know what she looks like? Are you good friends? I think she thinks I'm a freak because of my "I'm a shut in" comment in an earlier thread! I'm not really a shut in

I met her recently. She lives near. She's a total hottie, and while no one can really say what's going on in the mind of another, I'm pretty sure she hasn't given a second thought to your "shut-in" status.

[Gribble]

Fras, I think the same way. Sometimes I wish I'd never asked this girl out in the first place. I know it isn't going to last, but our friendship might have. I don't know, man. Enjoy it while you can and think positively. Tell that voice of logic to shut the **** up. I think it's better to look back on a wonderful relationship rather than one filled with fears and doubts.

[love2loveu]

Me and my girls had a conversation about this the other night. Usually when we think that guys will automatically be attracted to a certain girl, the guys find another girl attractive.

My question is: what do you men find so attractive about a girl when you first spot her? What makes her catch your eye? Is it her eyes, her body, her voice, her clothes, the way she walks etc.?

OK girls and ladies, heres my outlook on the subject. If a girl is attractive, or good looking when she wakes up in the morning(like almost all women are but they are insecure about it,) They dont need make-up. Not ever.Personally, a little lipstick and mascara is plenty for me for my girl to get dolled up.

Now on to the clothing. Yes all men love miniskirts, short dressess, tights, and cleavage(god forgive us all), thats just the way it is, so deal with it. The color of your dress or skirt and/or makeup can make you appear sexier on the outside, but within your heart you are whom you are, regardless of how you dress.

Personally I love tall girls with long straight hair, WITHOUT FAKE TITS! I hate em! They are not natural, and I dont like playing with fake ones. That is where the point comes to where I have NO INTEREST in cleavage.

More to come as responses surface!

[love2loveu]

i agree with you... personality == body
anyone?

Personallity first buddy, one the couple gets along, with all the things I cant explain.

[Junket]

FAKE TITS! They are not natural

So wait...is he trying to say...that fake tits...aren't natural??

[Gigabitch]

He sounds like a hippie-lover.

I guess I do too. I like facial hair and hate cologne.

[love2loveu]

He sounds like a hippie-lover.

I guess I do too. I like facial hair and hate cologne.

Gig, you are suggesting that you dont look beautiful W/O makeup

[Gigabitch]

Dude, it's been so long since I bothered with anything more than rudimentary make-up, I wouldn't even know. I so can't be bothered with that crap. Most of the time, I am runing around with hairy legs, too.

Yeah! That's right! Now you all know the truth! I post on LF instead of shaving!

I only look gross when I have strep throat or someting.