Single and Lonely

[psydex]

EZ NOW!!!!

paps m8... im 23 in a month, ive had a total of 3 relationships all which lasted less than a month, after being cheated on in all 3 cases...

...now, im a student in newcastle Uk, doing the final year of an engineering degree, im reasonably intelligent, down to earth with a decent sense of humour [i think]. I would class myself as 'average' looking but am reasonably fit due to my super fast metabloism and 5 years in the army [which im no longer in]...
...i have my own flat which i own and a decent job that i gotta wear a tie to and go to meetings! so i wud say iim a resonable guy to go out with.

i too however have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what the hell to say when i spot i lass i like. so much so, i have given up on talking to them face to face cos i just end up pouring with sweat and its just embarassing, or im far too drunk to care what the hell their responce is, so im a member of a canny few dating sites.
this seems to be going ok. i met a lass who likes the same kind of music i do [am a DJ so music is more or less my entire social life], as well as other common interests which all add the +'s!

we've been chatting on msn etc for a few weeks, and it all seems ok until i ask her if she wants to meet up...

... now in these few weeks weve had some pretty 'risque' conversations so i kinda figured that meeting up would be the obvious next step....

... we've arranged to meet once before but she got landed with babysitting for her auntie at the last minute, so we arranged to meet again, this sunday [its bank hols monday] cos she sed she didnt have work sunday or monday

i have text her a few times since arranging this but she hasnt replied at all. so i dont no where i stand really... does she want to meet up, doesnt she, is she playing me .... WTF!?!?


any clues?

[elsa20]

EZ NOW!!!!

paps m8... im 23 in a month, ive had a total of 3 relationships all which lasted less than a month, after being cheated on in all 3 cases...

...now, im a student in newcastle Uk, doing the final year of an engineering degree, im reasonably intelligent, down to earth with a decent sense of humour [i think]. I would class myself as 'average' looking but am reasonably fit due to my super fast metabloism and 5 years in the army [which im no longer in]...
...i have my own flat which i own and a decent job that i gotta wear a tie to and go to meetings! so i wud say iim a resonable guy to go out with.

i too however have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what the hell to say when i spot i lass i like. so much so, i have given up on talking to them face to face cos i just end up pouring with sweat and its just embarassing, or im far too drunk to care what the hell their responce is, so im a member of a canny few dating sites.
this seems to be going ok. i met a lass who likes the same kind of music i do [am a DJ so music is more or less my entire social life], as well as other common interests which all add the +'s!

we've been chatting on msn etc for a few weeks, and it all seems ok until i ask her if she wants to meet up...

... now in these few weeks weve had some pretty 'risque' conversations so i kinda figured that meeting up would be the obvious next step....

... we've arranged to meet once before but she got landed with babysitting for her auntie at the last minute, so we arranged to meet again, this sunday [its bank hols monday] cos she sed she didnt have work sunday or monday

i have text her a few times since arranging this but she hasnt replied at all. so i dont no where i stand really... does she want to meet up, doesnt she, is she playing me .... WTF!?!?


any clues?

i've got no idea.i just know if i were in the same situation,i would reply thetext .

wish you good luck

[Papsy]

Hi, This is certainly a very different type of scenario. One minute she says one thing and then changes her mind! Well i hope it all works out so you are saying that you have had some sort of luck then!

[psydex]

yeah... im hoping that summat happens on the +ve side!

from my point of view re: net dating sites, they can be good [ive had say 4/5 hook ups from them] but i often find that the relationships built from them often come to nought. who people are and who they say they are, are often very different things [plus theres a lot of ****ed up people on the sites as well as scammers so watch your back]. but i dont want to put you off as sometimes we all need a booty call so to speak!! [and some site members are very "accommodating"; you just have to be prepared to put yourself out there and be honest and open... ]

[nbfsb]

I am a male, 23, single, I have finished university and now working in a big company. What more could a person ask for? Well i was in a relationship for 3 years and it just all fell apart for some reason. Ever since then I have been single and lonely, I just find it hard to picture the type of person who I really want to be with. Most of my friends after uni have all disappeared gone to different parts of the UK and working in different companies but most of all are settling down with their girlfriends. I just want to be in that situation. I just find it hard to approach women and I dont know what the reason could be. I work long hours and this cuts out a lot of my socialising time and hence the time that I do get off I just dont know who I could go out and have fun with. Most of my friends are in relationships and hence are not really up for going out or on the look-out. Im just so confused, will it be like this forever? I certainly hope not! I just wish I could get some sound advice that would help me in my pursuit for happiness and no more lonliness, hopefully I could even meet someone of the opposite sex in the same shoes as me!

I really look forward to getting some good responses.

Thank you

me too,I'm single but still happy.you don't need to look for love,you just have to wait for it patiently.when the time is right,you shall have the best woman to settle with. for the meantime you may want to divert your attention to purposeful activities such as being productive at work,hobbies,hang out more often with our family & friends,etc.