Hi.

[IndiReloaded]

Here Cain, this song is for you:

Now you say you're lonely
You cry the long night through
Well, you can cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you

Now you say you're sorry
For being so untrue
Well, you can cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you

You drove me, nearly drove me, out of my head
While you never shed a tear
Remember, I remember, all that you said
You told me love was too plebeian
Told me you were through with me and

Now you say you love me
Well, just to prove that you do
Come on and cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lf6pajOHQKE"]YouTube - Diana Krall: Cry me a river[/ame]

[misombra]

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQmHnSIJTII"]YouTube - Maná - te llore todo un rio (Video Oficial)[/ame]

this world keeps turning
and i've played you out
baby i cried you a river
baby i cried till it overflowed
you don't have heart
i'm not going to love you again
i cried you a river
now cry me an ocean.

[Cain]

Yep.

She hasn't come out and said "I want you back," but she's alluded to it in a text I got from her last night.

Is it weird that I was kind of thinking that she'd have too much pride to do that?

[Mish]

I think it's kinda rude of someone to think that they can break off a relationship so they can hook up with someone else and then if that doesn't work out they can come back to the one they had before (as a backup plan). It may work for some jobs, but applying that to partners (shrug).

[Cain]

I think it's kinda rude of someone to think that they can break off a relationship so they can hook up with someone else and then if that doesn't work out they can come back to the one they had before (as a backup plan). It may work for some jobs, but applying that to partners (shrug).

It's a tough one. On one hand, I feel like she broke up with me for this other guy and is only talking to me because she's lonely. On another, she could have realized through this bad, failed relationship that what we had really was good.

Personally, I'm not going to decide either way. I simply don't trust her. I can't date someone I don't trust.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

How did she show she wants you back in the text? As for the pride thing, I had a feeling it would break down eventually. One day she'll straight out tell you how she feels.


One day.

[Cain]

She said that she had been thinking about things and she didn't realize how much she missed it and said that it sucks things didn't turn out differently.

She won't come out and say she wants me back and she isn't trying to get me to ask her to come back. I think she's hoping that by telling me that she misses it I'll suggest trying to work things out so she doesn't seem desperate.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

And what I'm saying is eventually she'll get aggravated that she's sending all these hints and you're not breaking and then spill her guts to ya.

Dont forget the "lol no thanks"


hehe I still find that funny.

[misombra]

you're gonna take her back.

[Cain]

It'll be hard. A part of me is going to want to go back to her. It's the same part that remembers all of the good times that we had.

But then there's the part of me that just doesn't trust her. I can't say that we'd never get back together. The one thing I've learned is that nothing is for sure. But I will say that I don't think she'll have the patience to jump through all of the obstacles she'd have to jump through to win back my trust.

And I can't imagine dating someone I don't trust.

[Cain]

you're gonna take her back.

Where's the confidence?

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

She's confident that you're gonna take her back

[misombra]

Where's the confidence?

i don't know. i just have a feeling that you still have feelings for her and would like to have her again. even if it's just to see if she'll get back with you again.

eh, but i could be wrong.

[Cain]

i don't know. i just have a feeling that you still have feelings for her and would like to have her again. even if it's just to see if she'll get back with you again.

eh, but i could be wrong.

I don't need to take her back to know that she wants me back. I can tell by the way she's acting. If I said that I wanted to work on things and get back together with her right now, she would.

Do I have feelings for her? Sure, I care about her. Do I love her? No. Like I said, a part of me wants to get back with her because of the relationship we had, but I can't trust her. And it would take something major to make me change my mind.

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result."

I don't even know the real reason we broke up and I don't think she does either. Why the hell would I take her back if we don't know why we broke up? I'm not going to take someone back if there's no solution to the original problem (that doesn't even exist).

[ecojeanne]

cain, don't even contemplate taking her back! omg, i can see in your comments it's a slight possibility! she ****ed you over BIG time. tell her to **** off, if i had this chance that you have i would totally reel my ex in (to be cruel, of course) and then tell him to shove it, i hope thats what you're doing by still having contact.