Please help me, I am confused

[ecojeanne]

ok gaaserud you're just acting dumb now! typical of psychos... go back and read what you wrote! i'm not going to try and explain coz obviously you don't nor ever will get a grip!

[gaaserud]

ok gaaserud you're just acting dumb now! typical of psychos... go back and read what you wrote! i'm not going to try and explain coz obviously you don't nor ever will get a grip!

Ok, goodnight and have a good life.

Hahaha ... mincing words again i see, Jeanne.

Here's my final take on what happened. Gaaserud has probably been procrastinating all week trying to get up the courage to ask her out tonight.

He was clueless as to the inappropriateness and her inevitable reaction to such a late request, and felt like he was being punished for having finally having gotten the courage to ask her out, a mental process that she, of course, was unaware of.

If the true facts are any different from what I just spelled out, then I agree with your post completely. His tone toward the end made me feel like I should give him the benefit of the doubt.

Carl.

Its not easy to be in love..

[ecojeanne]

Hahaha ... mincing words again i see, Jeanne.

Here's my final take on what happened. Gaaserud has probably been procrastinating all week trying to get up the courage to ask her out tonight.

He was clueless as to the inappropriateness and her inevitable reaction to such a late request, and felt like he was being punished for having finally gotten the courage to ask her out, a mental process that she, of course, was unaware of.

If the true facts are any different from what I just spelled out, then I agree with your post completely. His tone toward the end made me feel like I should give him the benefit of the doubt.

Carl.

carl i disagree, he comes across as quite smart.....my instincts are telling me she already knew to make that decision, yes he is arrogant and i really didn't like the whole discussion from the moment he assumed she should be 'grateful' wtf!

[carl1222]

Hahahaha Jeanne,

I called him arrogant (and conceited) as well for the same comment!

As amazing as it seems, I think he actually forgot that she had no clue as to the internal struggle that preceded the very late date request. Mainly because it took him so long to realize he had made a mistake.

Smart people can do dumb things. I do it all the time! Why would he come on here to justify what he clearly knew was wrong to total strangers?

Carl.

[Cain]

I am not a shrink, but I am quite sure you are the kind of person not willing to admit to anything. You came at me hard, and i didnt appreciate it. I came here for some advise and some cheering up, not thrash talk.

I am not worshipping this girl, but i like her alot. If you knew her, you would too.

No, I would not be worshiping her. You know why? Because I don't put pussy on a pedestal.

[ecojeanne]

Hahahaha Jeanne,

I called him arrogant (and conceited) as well for the same comment!

As amazing as it seems, I think he actually forgot that she had no clue as to the internal struggle that preceded the very late date request. Mainly because it took him so long to realize he had made a mistake.

Smart people can do dumb things. I do it all the time! Why would he come on here to justify what he clearly knew was wrong to total strangers?

Carl.

ok fair enough, weirdly you have an amazing way of calming me down....i'm impressed...most people can't even do that in the real world! i'm glad you're here, you speak sense

[carl1222]

Now if I could only get rid of the annoying habit of starting so many of my posts with "Hahaha"

[carl1222]

By the way, I like you too, Jeanne.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Gaaserud, I'm coming hard at you and quite frankly I dont give a ****. Why? CUZ YOU NEED IT!

First off, you came with your attitude like she HAS to go out with you. She did not reject you. She simply told you she had other plans. If her declining ONE ****ING INVITATION kills your confidence that much that you wouldnt ****ing ask her again, then I suggest you stick to yourself. You sound very pathetic. Also, putting a woman on a pedostal is so lame. Do you think a real woman wants to be worshipped like she's a queen or some shit? I sure dont. I just want a damn partner. We are both equally important to one another, there's nobody higher than nobody in a true loving relationship.

Now grow some ****ing balls and ask her out again. Ask her if she has any free time and if she'd like to hang out sometime. If she rejects you again, oh well. Get over it and move on. Easier said than done, TRUST ME I KNOW, but it has to be done. You're acting like a frikken emo, thats so unattractive that you wanna give up soooo easily just cuz of one rejection. You give up way too easy dude, you really think any woman is going to want to deal with that?

Build your confidence and deal with being declined a date. It will happen some more in your lifetime....take them as experience and learn from them. Dont stay in your comfort zone of simply not asking anymore unless you wanna be alone for the rest of your life.

[gaaserud]

Hehe, i will grow some balls and ask her out again. Thanks for the push!